I do not get wet during sex!

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Sorry for TMI!

Me and my partner have three children. Since my first birth, I’ve struggled to get wet during sex. I read online the more children you have, the drier you can be, but the issue is, I get wet during the day?? So I can/do get wet?

I sometimes get wet during foreplay and when the penetration starts I dry up.

We spoke about it the other night and I all this time he thought I found him unattractive. This is not the case! I showed him the history on my phone to show him it’s something I’m insecure about and it’s more psychological, since my body (stomach) and vagina have changed due to child birth.
The last thing I need is for him to think I don’t find him attractive.

I have looked at purchasing kegel eggs and going to start exercising again, as this issue has effected me for many years now.

Can anyone recommend ways they stayed wet during sex (natural if possible) please?

I enjoy the sex, the feelings are all there. Just the wetness that’s an issue and it seems to be psychological as I over think things during the lead up.

Thank you in advance :)

We all have changes in our body due to hormones, childbirth etc. Stop worrying about it and get some nice silky lube from LoveHoney or similar.

You do seem overly worried about what your partner thinks though. Does he have no understanding about what women go through ?

I can’t stop worrying about it. Lube is a temporary solution, I want to know I can naturally get wet again during sex.

I’m very insecure of the changes of my body, so it’s not easy to stop worrying.

My partner is very understanding. We had the talk a few nights ago and all this time I thought he knew it was down to my births as I mentioned it a year or so ago. But when he revealed he thought I found him unattractive, of course that’s an extra worry, as that would just be an added problem.

With me, I over think my insecurities and it effects things. He is very understanding, but knowing what my body used to be like just makes me feel unattractive and I now want to get back to my normal self, naturally.