So I’m 23, and I gave birth to my second child in July 2021. During the end of my pregnancy I thought I was experiencing pelvic girdle pain, however 10 months later I’m still experiencing a lot of issues. My symptoms are: pain during sex and afterwards, frequent urination, bleeding between periods and after sex (sometimes), extreme lower stomach/bladder pain which radiates to my back and hips/pelvis often, urgency to urinate, pressure and uncomfortableness when bladder is starting to get full.
I’ve been to the doctors countless times, I often get uti type symptoms but every time my urine test comes back clear. They’ve checked my cervix multiple times, each time saying it’s a so fine and healthy (last check was feb 2022, I’ve had swabs taken (not a smear). They’ve eventually referred me to gyno with suspect of endometriosis and my laparoscopy is booked for the end of July 2022. However when I went for my gyno appointment, he was under the impression I was under the wrong sector which was very bizarre and he told me it didn’t sound like endometriosis according to my referral. So I’m very confused. My GP isn’t the best and have recently made quite a lot of mistakes with things. So am I overthinking this or should I push for a smear. They have refused multiple times to give me a smear, and when I said ‘so because it looks healthy I can’t have cancer’, they said no, but it’s very likely you don’t. Which I understand they need to cover themselves but I think unless you can 100% say so a smear should be available. I’m sexually active, have 2 children and think I should be able to get one. Thoughts please as this as been happening for nearly a year, and my symptoms have flared up massively over the past few weeks.