I am 23 years old and came off the combined pill at the end of June last year. My first 2 cycles were 32 days each, with a 4-day period. I then had a 53 day cycle which I thought was weird but figured it was my hormones trying to figure themselves out. After that, I had a 29 day cycle and then a 50 day cycle. All throughout these cycles I've had random spotting, sometimes for as long as a week, both before and after ovulation. All of these cycles had a 4 day period.
Suddenly, last month, I had an 18 day cycle after a 6 day bleed, meaning I supposedly ovulated while still bleeding. I figured it was a one off but still went to the doctor's anyway, they did a blood test and everything came back normal. They also swabbed my cervix and I haven't got the results back yet but she said there didn't appear to be any redness so it's unlikely to be cervical erosion. I am due for an internal scan, as well as an abdominal scan this week. They asked me to take a pregnancy test before I did any of this, which I did on the 8th of this month and it was negative.
Now onto today, 20 days into my new cycle following a 7 day bleed (my longest one yet!) and I'm bleeding again. It's heavy enough that I need a tampon and I've seen a couple of clots, meaning it's likely my period and I ovulated on my last period, yet again! After consulting Dr Google most women who get this are in their late 30/early 40s and it's a sign of perimenopause. I am now terrified that I'm going to get the menopause mega early and will be unable to have children.
Please can somebody give me some advice? I've been off the pill almost 8 months now! My periods shouldn't be this erratic and weren't the last time I came off the pill when I was 20. I'm so worried and it's stressing me out big time