Hi all, I’m new here
, was just wondering if anyone could tell me their experience of having a hysteroscopy - ie, what happens on the day, what sort of thing they say when they give you your results etc.
Basically I’ve been having problems with periods and bleeding in between periods now for about 18 months ~ maybe even slightly longer, as well as pain during sex. Have also been having really long periods, lasting from anything to 25 days, 45 days etc. Currently on day 128 of my current period 
Prior to all of this starting I had no issues, I had had 2 copper coils - both had been in for years (did have one taken out for a while when we tried for a family for a bit, didn’t happen and I became unwell so we made the decision to get it put back in and that was that).
My own GP has been fabulous, checked everything out, suggested first thing would be to have my copper coil removed as that can sometimes be an irritant, had that removed, went to gynae and had a biopsy taken and a colposcopy, everything came back clear.
Gynaecologist did find a small cyst on my right ovary but that was all - said that wouldn’t be responsible for causing all this pain and bleeding.
GP had previously put me on tranexamic acid to try and stop the bleeding, but you can’t take this long term.
Gynaecologist says solution is mirena coil or pill - however I know these aren’t the solution for me as I have tried these both before, and tried the pill again recently to see if that would stop the bleeding, but unfortunately I am really sensitive to hormones and take bad migraines and headaches which I am on medication for anyway, but basically this just made it 100 x worse straight away.
After a couple of appointments gynaecologist has now said referred me to a colleague at a different hospital for a second opinion, but basically said to me that as I am “refusing all other treatment”, which I suppose I technically am but it is refusal for a reason, not just me saying no and not giving it a try, the only option left to me it an Endometrial Microwave Ablation (EMA), where they use heat treatment to destroy the lining of the womb - but that this treatment means you are at high risk if you were to become pregnant afterwards, so he is suggesting sterilisation at the same time.
I am only 36, we don’t have any children, don’t think we want any, think I have just about gotten my head around being happy doing the aunt and uncle bit with hubby then handing them back (we have 2 nieces and a nephew between us).
Tbh, I just want some kind of life back, all of this constant bleeding is draining - been diagnosed with anaemia, and my hubby won’t sleep with me while I’m bleeding which I get but is still a bit rubbish.
This has become a bit of a ramble 🙈, basically any advice or any words of wisdom from anyone would be much appreciated.
My own GP has said that depending on what the other gynaecologist says (hoping to see them by the end of this month, still waiting for app letter), that the likely outcome will be EMA or a hysterectomy to stop bleeding altogether.
Thank you for listening