Hello, I was wondering if anyone here has had or is having a similar experience to me at the moment. Sorry this is long winded and I'm not very good at putting things down in writing.
So around 10 months ago I started bleeding between periods and sometimes after sex (mainly in the week following my period) the pain feels similar to period cramps but different in some way that I can't quite put my finger on, it almost feels like period cramps mixed with wind. I usually have to take painkillers and lay down as the pain also goes to my lower back and down my thighs, but this is more like an achey pain. Then for around two weeks before my period starts, I get no bleeding or pain after sex and everything feels normal again.
I've been to the doctors and they had a look and said everything looks fine, also my swabs came back clear for any infections. She has now referred me to get an ultrasound but she said it wasn't urgent, which makes me think that I could be a while waiting and I didn't know if it was worth me going private for a ultrasound to speed up the process as I feel like I'm losing my mind a little. I feel that because the pain goes away for a few weeks before my period starts, I always think that everything's fine and then it happens again after my period ends and the worry starts all over again.
I'm 30 years old, have a copper coil that I've had for over 2 years and no children. I am up to date with my smear, (it’s due in August this year).
I feel like I'm going a little mad and it's really effecting my day to day life cos I just want to know if it's normal or not. If it's normal then I'll just get on with things but it's the not knowing that worries me.
Apologies if this makes no sense or is hard to understand.