Hello looking for some advice. First thing is I suffer from ocd and horrendous health anxiety. My mum has had breast cancer twice once at 52 and then again 68. She now 77. I was 19 when she first had it. I've never dealt with it very well. I've always worried as it can be hereditary. My mums half aunt had it. She lived till she was 88 and it wasn't cancer that she died off. That was my family history. However last year I found out her daughter was diagnosed with it. My mums half cousin. She was 59. She's fine now. We are not close with them so I found out via Facebook. They have now gone to genetics. They have said my great gran had it. My mum says she knows nothing like that and she was never told that. She died in 1944. This year mums full cousin was diagnosed age 71. Her mother no blood relation to us had it and died from it years and years ago. She had a lump and never went to the doctor. My doctor has the breast clinic said she didn't think much higher risk but she would refer me. I got a call on Thursday and to be honest I'm so confused as to what to do. They said they would test my mum first. However I've read you can get inconclusive results which I think I would worry about more. Has anyone gone down that road with genetics? I spoke to McMillan and they says these relatives apart from my mum are distant. I'm just a bit all over the place. Please be gentle I do have really bad health anxiety