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Millshake01 · 21/09/2020 11:24

Hi
My husband left a week ago. My decision. We haven't been getting on for years. I have been unhappy for a very long time. Got to the point where I thought ok I need to sort this out.
I told him my feelings. He's struggling with it. But he left. We are still in contact as we have a young one,
He's now blaming the menopause on our break up!!! I feel this is very insulting!!! Kind of saying "stupid woman she's behaving like this because of the menopause!!
He's always been a very difficult man. Very argumentative and in a way quite controlling. But he's also a lovely man and good dad. Most of the time. I've just fallen out of love with him.
How can I get this across to him???

OP posts:
mia2201 · 21/09/2020 20:41

No experience with this but in my opinion it's his coping mechanism. You seem to have made up your mind so don't waste your energy on explaining yourself too much as he'll stick with his version of the story, it's inevitable. Read Untamed by Glennon Doyle and work on moving on. All the best 👍

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