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Smear test next week

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Mvshrln · 06/08/2020 15:56

Hi all,

I've got pretty severe health anxiety which I've created another post about. When I had my first smear test (age 24 - they sent my letter a few months before I turned 25 so I got booked in), they found CIN III cells which were removed. The follow up smear was clear, and I had another smear last year when I was 28, which again came back clear. The first smear was so traumatic, I fainted when they did the colposcopy and therefore had to have the CIN3 cells removed under anaesthetic. The healing period was horrible. The same year my mirena coil got stuck inside me, which they tried to remove various times until I ended up having that removed under anaesthetic, and they also took a womb biopsy which came back as fine.

Since then, I've been quite uncomfortable about sex, I don't use tampons and I feel a bit of emotional trauma surrounding that whole area of my body. I just don't really want anything near that area.

I also feel a lot of guilt, as I became sexually active at a young age, and my only concern was not getting pregnant so I was on the pill, but often didn't use condoms. I used sex as a coping mechanism and a confidence boost, it definitely wasn't healthy and I feel ashamed of that.

I've got a full health check booked next week due to starting with private health care, and this check involves a smear test. I am beginning to feel so worried and upset about this, worried of what the results will be, and just generally anxious about the memories it brings back from before.

I don't really know what I want from posting this - maybe a hand hold? :(

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DianasLasso · 06/08/2020 16:01

Offers hand hold.

A few thoughts - do you have a good female friend you could take with you for support? (Even if she has to sit outside in the car due to social distancing, knowing she's there for you afterwards might help).

Have you phoned the clinic and explained how nervous you are? They may well have experience with this and have suggestions for how to handle it (including, possibly, sedatives during the procedure. Different procedure I know, but I have dental phobia and had to have gas and air last time I had a wisdom tooth out, which made a huge difference to my well being).

Mvshrln · 10/08/2020 10:09

@DianasLasso thank you so, so much for your reply xx
The smear test is part of a wider health check for general health, so I will disclose my anxiety with them. I think I will arrange to do something nice in the afternoon to give me time to process whatever happens and then maybe meet up with a friend.
It's so good that healthcare providers are able to support us in this way, like with giving you gas and air for dental procedures. If I need further treatment following the smear test I'll ask for it to be done under anaesthetic cos I just physically and mentally don't do well with it.
I wish I could stop myself from googling things though!

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