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I'm worried about a lump I found in my breast but DH is having a worse day than me.

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AmericanHousewifeFan · 16/06/2020 19:47

Sometimes I wonder why I bother. I was at the GP today. I need to wait 2-4 weeks for a consultant appointment. I'm trying not to worry but I am worried.

DH is acting like he has the worst life in the world- overworked, stressed, too busy, no life and to top it off I forgot he was going for a run and didn't have his dinner ready at 6.

Really? He is having a bad day??

I think I've given him too much of my time. I don't really see my friends. I don't have any hobbies or do anything outside work and home really. He keeps encouraging me to do stuff but when I do I end up working longer to make up for it. We work together. We're self employed.

But sick of it all today.
Sorry for the rant.

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quietlyspoken08 · 16/06/2020 19:53

Sending you a big hug. Sorry he is being so inconsiderate. I would be tempted to have a big rant at him and make it clear how you are feeling and how him thinking of only himself makes you feel, especially in this situation.

I had the same went to the docs who found a further two lumps and sent me for a biopsy. Cue weeks of worrying no sleep, and driving myself crazy. Turned out to be nothing sinister thank god! I really feel for you and have everything crossed all is ok Thanks

AmericanHousewifeFan · 16/06/2020 20:11

Thanks quietly. Glad you didn't have anything serious.

I will let him know how I feel when he gets home. I'm seething at the moment.

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