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I don’t care if you’re itching

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Saww30sawe · 25/04/2020 22:39

I seem to get thrush just before my period. I tell my bf when I’m itchy and using canesten cream. He seems to think it’s fine to still have sex during these times (with a condom) but sometimes I’m too sore. Well this time he knew very well I had been treating thrush but still wanted to have sex without a condom! He kept trying it on while I was sleeping so Just to keep him happy I just went with the flow as I wasn’t itching but knew that the thrush hadn’t totally cleared up.

I was annoyed afterwards because I was so so sore. Few days later he has the nerve to say to me that he is itching and going to have to use cream and paracetamol as though it’s my fault.

I apologised for this but told him he knew dam well I had thrush. Now he’s acting slightly moody. I’m feeling angry with him for always wanting to have sex even though he knew I was sore. I don’t even care he has thrush. I’m annoyed too. I don’t want him anywhere near me am I over reacting ?

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Lilolily · 26/04/2020 03:27

Let him enjoy his treatment and have a little smirk to yourself every time he scratches I say. Perhaps he’ll be more understanding in future!

RainbowSlide · 26/04/2020 03:51

Trying it on while you're asleep is not consensual sex, it's sexual assault, doesn't matter that he's your partner. I'd LTB if my partner showed so little respect for me. At the very least he needs to know that no means no and he could be reported to the police for doing this

OhWhatFuckeryIsThisNow · 26/04/2020 03:56

Seriously? Report his rapey arse.

Reginabambina · 26/04/2020 04:18

Why did you apologise? Surely the appropriate response in that scenario would be ‘no shit’. At least he’s been taught a lesson. In your place I would leave him.

Prokupatuscrakedatus · 26/04/2020 18:40

So -
he doesn't care that you are itchy
he doesn't care that you are in pain
he doesn't care that he caused you more pain
he started to have sex while you were asleep
showing that he a) is not interested in consent and b) is not interested in a participating partner he just wants a hole

he now blames you for the infection

What's not to love about this man?

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