Hi everyone. I had DS 2 yeatys ago and had a lot of birth Injuries. I have a really severe prolapse and stress incontinence which I had physio for. They have tried multiple times with different types of pesseries but my vagina is such a funny shape and the prolapse is so severe, they don't work for me.
I struggle going to the toilet a lot, especially with bowel movements, so am awaiting Peristeen.
I've been referred for Urodynamics. And they want to do abdominal surgery to attach a mesh to hold all the organs up and attach it to my spine.
The surgeries are: Colposuspension and Sacrohysteropexy.
I've been trying to research everything but I feel really overwhelmed. My mum has sent me a lot of info about meshes and how they can ruin your life and, to be honest, it's made me not want to look into it again because it's so depressing. If mesh won't work or makes my life worse, what's the point!? It already feels like I'm living a substandard, inhumane quality of life without being able to even toilet normally, let alone have sex.
With the way the world is at the moment, surgery will be a long way off yet. I was hoping there was anyone that could give me any kind of information, opinion or advice on what these surfies actually are. If there is an alternative to the mesh, is the mesh really that bad?
When I saw the consultant before lockdown, she said that I may have heard negative stories about mesh but they are talking about mesh put in vaginally which has only been around since the 90's. My procedure will be abdominally which was been around since the 50s and she wouldn't recommend the surgery unless she was happy for her mother/sister/herself to have it also.