Hi, I’m 28 & have a son turning 2 in March.
Just yesterday I took a positive pregnancy test in work I just knew I was pregnant from the way I was feeling pain, nausea & tiredness I really know my body as I've gotten older. I wasn't happy seeing them 2 lines in fact I was distraught in the toilet at work cause I took the morning after pill nearly 5 weeks ago this is something that I tried to avoid. From a spare of the moment thing, having unprotected sex ONCE in more than a couple of months. I have spoken to my best friend and partner who was as shocked as me, but both said they would support my decision I think they could see I wasn't happy. We both work full time & struggle with things as it is, childcare etc working running a home it's been a rollercoaster the past few years ups & downs like most couples I think, we've been together almost 12 years! Our son is our world all our effort, time & money goes into raising him. The thought of being heavily pregnant with a toddler scares the living shit out of me, something I'm not cut out for. I think I am pro choice, especially nowadays but it's so different when the shoe is on your foot. I feel so lucky to be able to conceive but so ungrateful at the same time. We always said we wouldn't rule out another in our 30's & I know people say there is never a right time but I disagree. It definitely isn't a happy shock like 2 years ago! I really wish this didn't have to happen & have spent all night wishing it was a nightmare! How sad! Thank you ladies