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My partner has gone off me since we had our baby

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Emz2019 · 17/01/2019 23:21

Our baby is 6 months old, things have been a bit rocky as his ex stopped him seeing his children from his previous marriage and he’s been fighting for custody in court and I know it’s getting him down but Iv done all I can to help him and support him. Things are getting better now with court and our baby sleeps all night and things are much easily than they were a few months ago, however my partner seams very quiet lately, we used to have sex a lot and now he never wants too at all, I did give him a bj to try and spice things up and he was happy with that but nothing happened since. I feel he’s gone off me. Sometimes he seams very happy I himself he’s great with our child but I feel like he’s no longer Inlove with me. I have asked him if he is, and he says he is. But it doesn’t explain why he’s being like this. We went out for a meal last weekend and had a few drinks each, it was nice, came home, still no sex. We used to always come upto bed together and watch tv now I come up to bed around 11pm and he wants to stay downstairs on his own to watch tv, Iv said watch it upstairs but he says it might wake the baby up.... however it never used to so don’t see why it would now. Am I being crazy?

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Seaweed42 · 18/01/2019 10:28

You might get more replies if you post in the Relationships forum.
Sorry you are experiencing this. Why did the ex stop him seeing the kids?
You'll have to try to draw him out and see what's going on 'Can we have a talk about something. I notice you are withdrawing a lot when you are at home, do you notice that. Also I think we both can see that we don't have sex any more so I'm wondering what might be going on there'.
So talk about what you see going on, rather than an accusation of saying 'you don't love me anymore'.

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