Oh, no, DuchessofAvon, sorry I misread you so badly! We're just flipping back and forth between hate-love and love-hate that I didn't keep up.
You are quite right to hate some Iris Murdoch books; some of them are quite dreadful. However, for gothic beauty and real sexiness, The Unicorn is great, and The Bell is also very good, not quite sure why, but will think about how to explain.
The Book and the Brotherhood has its "longeurs" , but has an incredible plot.
Now, IM does like to get into the essence of things, and if you can't stand philosophical similes about, for example, how thought is like light, she is not for you (or anyone else listening to my blathering). I first read The Bell when I was a teenager, and it soooo appealed to me, ideas and comparisons I could think about, not the so-conventional people around me, that I was extremely grateful. It was grown-up writing and reading for me, when the RL grownups around me were a bit dull.
I hope you're not going to take my recommendation without considering these style issues, as I'd hate to disappoint!