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What next for book-obsessed DD16 who has “read everything worth reading”

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NemoNerd · Today 08:49

Looking for some suggestions for summer reading for my book-obsessed 16 yo dd. She hardly read anything in y8 and y9 but in y10 suddenly became a voracious reader. It’s her biggest hobby now - she reads 3 or 4 books per week and no longer watches Netflix at all. I barely recognise her!

She does read fiction, and has tapped out the big hit classics like Pride And Prejudice as well as more recent novels like Madeline Miller’s Song of Achilles.

She really enjoys books about psychology, sociology, astronomy - for example she enjoyed reading an old 1999 book called The Calendar which is very dense but explains how religion and politics have changed how we measure and understand time. She has also read some of the self help books about improving your personal power and influence over others.

Anyway…she’s just finishing up “Man’s Search For Meaning” by Viktor Frankl which she chose for herself.

She’s pondering reading “The Man who mistook his wife for a Cat” next as she really quite enjoys medical/psychological weirdness (she was a big Stephen King fan in year 9!).

For her next read I recommended “Sapiens: A brief history of humankind” followed by “Thinking Fast And Slow” which I told her may be a bit of a stretch.

But for the summer I’d like something a bit lighter…

What else may she like?! When I was her age I read a biographIes and enjoyed them, but it would need to be something really engaging.

She proudly tells me she’s read everything worth reading and is “running out of books” which I found extremely cute. Help me build a reading list!

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Pennyfan · Today 12:04

The Suspicions of Mr Whicher is a book my teens enjoyed. I enjoyed Sophie’s Choice at that age-fascinating and compelling, however, not light reading.

The Huntress by Alice Quinn is a fabulous book with great female characters. Across The Nightingale Floor is a Japanese based fantasy book but so good, with insights into a different culture.

OneWildandWonderfulLife · Today 12:04

Get her into feminism early! The book I’ve recommended to nieces, children of friends and trainees straight from school is Invisible Women by Caroline Criado Perez.

Doesn’t complain about men, just shows how the world is not built for the female sex.

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YouBelongWithMe · Today 09:24

I was going to suggest 'The Secret History ' too. Or 'The Goldfinch'.

I loved John Irving at that age. 'A Prayer for Owen Meany' was one of my favourites.

I came on here to recommend a prayer for Owen Meany. I read it around 16 and loved it.

Life After Life
Still Time
Making History
The Goldfinch
Birdsong
How To Stop Time
The Midnight Library

I also read Trainspotting at that age but maybe not appropriate 🤣

NoCommentingFromNowOn · Today 12:14

What about book award winners/shortlists? Eg Booker, Pulitzer and so on.

There is a subreddit where you put in what you want eg ‘I’m feeling like this’, ‘I’m in this situation’, ‘I loved these three’, and people recommend things, here…

https://www.reddit.com/r/suggestmeabook/s/qVKMxEZyhC

Some of the recent questions were ‘Dresden files but less sexist’ and ‘classics that don’t involve violence against women’ and ‘a book that should have been assigned in high school English but wasn’t’.

Pineapples123 · Today 12:18

Any of the Khaled Hosseini books are beautifully written and so profound.
Charlotte McConaghy too if she’s interested in fiction that weaves psychology and nature together.
Drive your plow over the bones of the dead? She might enjoy looking at the fitzcarraldo editions and seeing if any of those take her fancy.

Sweetsalad · Today 12:20

For a bit of fun I loved the Crazy Rich Asians books. Proper escapism but also a real sense of a different culture

Wishihadanalgorithm · Today 12:20

How about something totally different and get her reading plays? A play could take her down a worm hole of research, for example Caryl Churchill’s Top Girls raises a ton of issues that she might want to explore once she’s read the play?

Edward Bond’s Saved and Trevor Griffith’s The Comedians also raise many topics that she might like exploring too.

She sounds like she has a very curious mind so I’d be tempted to encourage breadth of books and let her interests guide her.

SalaDaeng · Today 12:23

Between 12 and 16 I enjoyed:
Aldous Huxley (Brave new world)
George Orwell, including Down and Out in London and Paris.
John Wyndham, especially The Chrysalids
Alexander Solzhenitsyn, Cancer Ward and The Gulag Archipelago
Richard Adams I read Shardik first and was hooked.

Sophie's World is interesting. I can't remember the author. I read that more recently when my DD was reading it when studying philosophy.

BauhausOfEliott · Today 12:24

Sweetsalad · Today 09:46

I loved getting recommendations from my parents about books. It felt like something we could share together. We still recommend books to each other now I am 3x op's DD age!

Sure, recommending is fine. I talked a lot about books with my parents and I share books with my mum all the time. When one of my parents got a book out of the library of course they said 'Have you read this one? It's great, I think you'd love it'.

But 'What should my 16-year-old read next? I need to create a reading list for her' is very different from just 'Oh, have you read X and Y? I really enjoyed that'. She needs to be discovering books for herself too.

The OP even says 'But for the summer I’d like something a bit lighter'. Not 'My daughter asked me if I can recommend her a light read for summer...'

It's brilliant to talk about books and share recommendations but when the kid's 16 they should be choosing for themselves, getting recommendations from people other than their mother, trying things out, browsing etc. When I was 16 I was recommending books to my parents just as much as they were recommending them to me.

Wishihadanalgorithm · Today 12:29

midJulytarget · Today 11:47

Jonathan Coe

Start her on What a Carve Up! and she'll be hooked

It's got everything a book could possibly have. I'm not even going to start listing its merits or I'll never stop

Oh this is one of my favourite books. He is SUCH a clever writer and this book really encourages further research into the period it’s set. So many cultural references that would be interesting to someone who is in to sociology.

SalaDaeng · Today 12:34

Beachhutgirl · Today 10:56

Keep suggesting a variety of books, she'll soon enjoy discovering that far from having read everything worth reading a lifetime is not enough to do so.

For a sociological non fiction try Virginia Axline Dibs, in Search of Self.

For fiction, assuming she liked Harry Potter, there is J K Rowlings Cormoran Strike series, although be aware that there are some fairly graphic descriptions included, so you have to judge if she is ready for this.

Another good call is Claire Chambers, Bright Girls is written for teenagers, and Learning to Swim and In a Good Light both largely tell the stories of a teenage girl growing up.

Joanna Trollope, the quality varies, but I'd mostly recommend the earlier ones, The Rectors Wife and A Village Affair.

Monica Dickens, light hearted autobiographies One Pair of Hands and One Pair of Feet, set pre war and during the war. Also lots of fiction.

Good luck to you and her finding g things she loves

I loved Monica Dickens.
I grew up in a little village. There was little to do but the library van came to the square once a week. The librarian was always delighted to see me and used to get a whole selection of books ready. She ordered the whole set of the Poldark novels for me one summer and I read them all in a couple of weeks.

Corianda · Today 12:35

Some easy reads:-
Piranesi by Susannah Clarke a surreal story to begin with, I’ve read it twice unusually.
My sister the Serial Killer by Oinkan Braithwaite.
The murder of Roger Ackroyd by Agatha Christie -I’ve been told this was her best though I’m sure others disagree.

Sweetsalad · Today 12:36

This thread is playing havoc with my mission to shrink my TBR pile

IThinkThereforeIPaint · Today 12:37

For something recent, Atmosphere by Taylor Jenkins Read was great and fits the cosmolo interest.

I was a voracious reader when I was that age, had been through a lot of classics and read war and peace when I was 12 (which was obviously way too young).

Things I liked and would still recommend:

Gormenghast. Intricate and layered and dramatic.

Scarlett Thomas books - The End of Mr Y, and Popco

Neal Stephenson. Cryptonomicon, Anathem and the entire Baroque Cycle which could keep her going for years, probably. They are completely brilliant fiction and so wide ranging over history, science, psychology. Also his book The Diamond Age.

Vikram Seth. A Suitable Boy. I should re-read actually.

Jared Diamond. Guns, Germs and Steel (non fiction). I personally did not like Sapiens and think this is better.

Iain M Banks, sci fi

Robin Hobbs. Brilliant fantasy.

Hilary Mantel if she likes historical stuff. A place of greater safety is her French Revolution novel.

Haruki Murakami I loved although in hindsight I don't think he writes women well at all.

David Mitchell. Cloud Atlas, and the Thousand Autumns of Jacob de Zoet.

Cloud Cuckoo Land, can't remember the author but this i read more recently and loved. Similarities with Cloud Atlas.

A S Byatt. Possession. A literary mystery and love story

I read loads of sci fi at that age but find some of the classics like Asimov a bit unreadable now, and I've lost patience with authors who can imagine all kinds of futures but not one with decent female characters or gender equality.

twilightermummy · Today 12:38

Circe by Madeline Miller is wonderful. I'm unsure if that's already been suggested.
Flowers for Algernon is beautifully heartbreaking.
Has she read the classic teen books such as The Bell Jar and Catcher in the Rye?

CrossPurposes · Today 12:41

When I was that age many a Virago book worked for me particularly My Brilliant Career by Miles Franklin and Dusty Answer by Rosamond Lehmann.

I also concur with the recommendations for Gaskell, Trollope, and Anne Brontë.

AnotherEmma · Today 12:47

Feminist literature; both fiction and non-fiction.
I discovered feminism later than her and it was a revelation; would have liked to discover it sooner.

6ate9 · Today 12:53

AnotherEmma · Today 12:47

Feminist literature; both fiction and non-fiction.
I discovered feminism later than her and it was a revelation; would have liked to discover it sooner.

I remember reading an old copy of The Female Eunuch by Germaine Greer!!
I also read The Bell Jar (Sylvia Plath)

ACR7 · Today 12:53

I used to enjoy my mams Jackie Collins books at that age 😂 not very high brow but entertaining and enlightening non the less.

24Dogcuddler · Today 12:55

Maybe ask how many of these she’s read. Second list got a lot of criticism. First one maybe more mainstream.

Agree with some PPs saying ask at the library/ find her way and also the PP who said to challenge her on the statement about having read everything worth reading. She may not but repeating that outside the home would make her seem arrogant and also naive.

Would she watch some different film adaptations or drama series of some classics. This might open up more mainstream discussions. Something you could do together.

https://www.theguardian.com/books/ng-interactive/2026/jun/06/readers-top-100-novels-of-all-time

https://www.theguardian.com/books/ng-interactive/2026/may/12/the-100-best-novels-of-all-time

CatherineCawoodsbestie · Today 12:56

Frost in May and sequels
testament of Youth and sequels
wide sargasso sea
the bell jar
The Well of lonlieness
cold comfort farm

lots of less well known Virago modern classics .

fay weldon
Virginia Woolf
barbara kingsolver
margaret atwood
EM Forster

Apologies for lack of caps - multi tasking

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