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Have you ever thrown a book in the bin?

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HopSpringsEternal · 14/02/2026 08:58

I did yesterday for I think the 3rd time in my life.
The first was that book by Gina Ford when DS1 was about 2 weeks old. It was all the rage at the time but DS definitely didn't want to follow the rules. In fact it was DH that threw it out and I was definitely a lot more.content.
The second was when I got out my old Doctor Dolittle books to read the kids and I realised they were littered with the N word. In a sort patronising racist way "the nice n man". Didn't want that word seen or normalised by any other kids so in the recycling it went.
The last was yesterday. Lying in bed realised their was a Neil Gaiman book on my book shelf. Didn't not want a book of that vile bastard staring at me so into the bin he went.
Foot all other books if I don't want them anymore.I just take them to the charity shop. But I didn't want to inflict the above three on anybody else.
Has anyone else?

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Elliania · 15/02/2026 01:29

Strngerthings · 15/02/2026 01:14

fair points, based on your readings of the books, what are your main summary points of who they become of the main characters eg danny, jon snow, please ?

I honestly can't say, it's way too dense and there's too much left to write. Best bet is to read them yourself & see what you think 🙂

Strngerthings · 15/02/2026 01:34

Elliania · 15/02/2026 01:29

I honestly can't say, it's way too dense and there's too much left to write. Best bet is to read them yourself & see what you think 🙂

fair points, it was still traitorous of jon snow he should have joined danny and ruled, although the writers did varys dirty

Bertiebiscuit · 15/02/2026 01:34

I'm interested to read that someone else thinks Anthony Kiedis is creepy, I've always thought so, but i didn't exactly know why. Just gut reaction for me, but i may investigate a bit more anyway. He "gives me the ick"

Bertiebiscuit · 15/02/2026 01:38

Oh dear

Bertiebiscuit · 15/02/2026 01:40

I would have binned it personally, you are a better person than me ☺️

BiteSizeByzantine · 15/02/2026 01:40

HeadyLamarr · 14/02/2026 09:50

We have a large stack of hardback books in recycling at the minute.

DS's old Warhammer books - they can't go to a charity shop as they contain outdated sets of rules. DS worries that if they went to a charity shop someone would get them, but armies based on those rules and have completely wasted their money. (Warhammer is not cheap)

Actually, quite a few non-fiction that contain outdated information have gone in the bin over the years. Reference books that are wrong are no use except as a curio.

That is incredibly sweet of your son.

GhettoSnoopystar · 15/02/2026 01:47

Melarus · 14/02/2026 09:08

John Niven's Kill Your Friends. So hateful and cold-hearted, and showoffy about it too, like look at me I scorn everything and I'm so cool.

I was put off by him back when he used to be on Twitter and saw some of his stuff that he tweeted.

Darlingx · 15/02/2026 02:54

My father gave me Brigit jones Diary I think I was 13 ? Anyway I read some exerts with writing her weight down and about a Christmas jumper thought what tosh is this and chucked it in the bin instantly . This was against my Dad and the Author. I didn’t want this to be my totem of womanhood. I then went on to kind of resemble Brigit as folklore even dating a TV presenter womaniser but ever single but what really stung was this fear my father had cast in stone that I was to remain unsuccessful with men. I felt he had some kind of fatherly knowing wisdom or maybe he hadn’t a clue what the book was about. He wasn’t in my life very much even living under the same roof as he was busy doing his own thing as they say but I did go on to watch the films but I do have this thing against the phrase Bunny Boiler being another weaponised term against women in the culture and so I am glad I threw that book it was a little present from 13 year old me to my future self. Don’t let this nonsense in your head

ManyATrueWord · 15/02/2026 03:04

The Land of Painted Caves by Jean M Auel. I had read Clan of the Cave Bear and it's two following books quite young. I remember waiting for book 4 to come out in paperback. I waited decades to finish that series and the last book was absolutely awful. I had read the previous five so you can see I wasn't expecting much!

Darlingx · 15/02/2026 03:47

Melarus · 14/02/2026 20:57

I'd be open to having my mind changed on it. Maybe there's more to it than I gave it credit for.

But it's definitely a children's book, which I read as a child, and I do remember the association of white=innocent=pure=holy and black=dirty=corrupted=fallen and in need of redemption. I don't think that's something we should be exposing kids to today.

This is so true I remember There was a little girl in our garden square telling me her black cat was unlucky and she was black and I wanted her to unlearn this I certainly was telling her that her Cat was not unlucky because it was black

CousinBette · 15/02/2026 03:48

I know this is a bit of a tangent but can you actually put books in the recycling as so many pp have done? I thought the glue used for binding paperbacks meant that you couldn’t.

Mixedmix · 15/02/2026 06:27

HopSpringsEternal · 14/02/2026 09:36

True. It was emotive rather than logical. Every time I see one if his books it made me feel a bit a bit sick and didn't want the woman at the charity shop to have to go through that if she felt the same.

I have given hundreds of books away over the years. And think these 3 are the only ones. I will stand by the Dr Dolittle as I can't abide normalisation of racism.
In charity shops, they quite often throw away books as they get so many shite ones or 800 copies of 50 shades of grey or The Da Vinci Code.

I don’t agree with censorship. It’s good to learn about how society has changed.

cariadlet · 15/02/2026 06:33

BrickBiscuit · 15/02/2026 00:22

I was just one of those kids who was taken to Sunday School but was never suckered in by the fairy stories. I found the whole thing hypocritical.

I'm impressed that you worked that out for yourself when you were only about 8.

I do love the image of an angry, younger you taking an axe to it.

Needlenardlenoo · 15/02/2026 07:37

Thisworldsnofun · 15/02/2026 00:35

One of the Earthsea ones by any chance? Can't remember which one it was but it scared me so much I put it down over 30 years ago and still haven't been brave enough to go back to it!

Yes, it was, but I'm certainly not googling to confirm the details 😂.

BrickBiscuit · 15/02/2026 08:38

cariadlet · 15/02/2026 06:33

I'm impressed that you worked that out for yourself when you were only about 8.

I do love the image of an angry, younger you taking an axe to it.

It was quite simple really. They told us to close our eyes and thank god for sending the rain to make our crops grow so we had plenty to eat. Then they told us to ask god (who is all-powerful) to help those starving children where it did not rain. I thought, why doesn't he just make it rain there too? Then we could all go home and I could play with my toys. I realised then it was just nonsense, and couldn't understand why the adults were taken in by it. It was the hypocrisy that really annoyed me though.

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:41

Donna Tart Secret history.
There was a thread on here which bloody glowed out of the screen.
Utter utter bollocks. Seriously, utter crap. In the bin it went.

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:43

Really sorry if it offends but the bible. Was given a copy as a kid I think, in the bin, utter nonsense in my mind I’m afraid.

RichardOnslowRoper · 15/02/2026 08:51

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:41

Donna Tart Secret history.
There was a thread on here which bloody glowed out of the screen.
Utter utter bollocks. Seriously, utter crap. In the bin it went.

Omg, that's one of my favourite books of all time.

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:54

RichardOnslowRoper · 15/02/2026 08:51

Omg, that's one of my favourite books of all time.

But why?
I lost interest around a quarter way in, kept going, but just couldn’t carry on because it was so bland and boring. Like NOTHING happened in it!

MyThreeWords · 15/02/2026 09:00

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:54

But why?
I lost interest around a quarter way in, kept going, but just couldn’t carry on because it was so bland and boring. Like NOTHING happened in it!

I think I enjoyed it for its creation of mood -- bleakness, loneliness, despair. She is very good at that. I preferred The Little Friend and The Goldfinch, though, which both do bleakness, loneliness, despair even better.

RichardOnslowRoper · 15/02/2026 09:01

Thesofathatwas · 15/02/2026 08:54

But why?
I lost interest around a quarter way in, kept going, but just couldn’t carry on because it was so bland and boring. Like NOTHING happened in it!

I love Greek history and dark academia. A murder happened on the first page! In fact, I think the opening line is one of the best ever.

OpenDreamer · 15/02/2026 09:19

OtterlyAstounding · 15/02/2026 00:11

Fair enough!! I love JK Rowling - she's amazing, imo. A great writer of both children's and adult novels, a decent and courageous person who sticks to her ideals, a generous philanthropist, and a strong supporter of women's rights ❤

But I'd be a hypocrite if I didn't think you were entitled to throw out any books that you own, and don't want anymore! It's not a crime to bin a book that you've bought with your own money - any book at all, be it the Koran, Harry Potter, The Sandman, or Stranger in a Strange Land!

(Besides, I don't think any big name authors are out there weeping over us binning their books 😂)

Exactly. My books i can do what i like with them. Personally i think its funny how outraged people are over the fact i binned them. As you say JK doesn't care as long as she gets her money.

And for what its worth, just because i believe that trans people have rights does not make me any less of a feminist. You dont know me stranger on the internet just like i dont know you.

IdentityCris · 15/02/2026 09:26

Now that so many National Trust properties have second hand bookshops, I tend to donate old books to them rather than charity shops. The trouble is that when I go in I can't resist buying anything that looks interesting, so my bookshelves aren't emptying as quickly as I originally hoped.

DenizenOfAisleOfShame · 15/02/2026 09:26

MyThreeWords · 15/02/2026 09:00

I think I enjoyed it for its creation of mood -- bleakness, loneliness, despair. She is very good at that. I preferred The Little Friend and The Goldfinch, though, which both do bleakness, loneliness, despair even better.

I couldn’t throw The Goldfinch away because I bought it on Kindle. But it is easily one of the worst books I’ve ever had the misfortune to read. Tedious and pointless. It says nothing of any interest about people or about any aspect of life. All the characters are one-dimensional. And it drivels on for an eternity.

RichardOnslowRoper · 15/02/2026 09:29

I loved The Goldfinch, but it was too long. The Little Friend was disappointing

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