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Wendy Moore's "Wedlock": Ooooohhhhh my giddy aunt!

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Beachtastic · 11/01/2026 11:02

After hearing about this book on Radio 4, I got it on Kindle (£2.99!) and am about a third of the way through.

It's a fascinating glimpse into the potential horrors of married life in Georgian England, and makes even the most gruesome MN threads seem quite upbeat by comparison. So much so that I am feeling quite stressed, reading it. His mind-bogglingly devious scheming, his sadistic brutality, his selfish destruction of everything worth having, and his wife's absolute isolation and helplessness in the face of all this... I can only force myself to continue reading by clinging to the knowledge that he does eventually get his come-uppance! And by feeling immensely grateful that life for British women is (or can be) so much better now that we are allowed to exist as humans in our own right.

The author has an elegant writing style that I sometimes find frustrating when reading sleepily in bed: she tends to put the subject in the middle of the sentence, or later. So constructions like "Despite xxx, and given the xxx, in an attempt to xxx, SUBJECT did this." I find myself having to re-read quite a few bits to grasp the full content.

Anyone else enjoying this book, and/or reading it with horror?

Wendy Moore's "Wedlock": Ooooohhhhh my giddy aunt!
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EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 11/01/2026 15:35

I DNFd this quite early on. Must go back to it.

Beachtastic · 11/01/2026 15:54

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · 11/01/2026 15:35

I DNFd this quite early on. Must go back to it.

It does get "meatier" (and more distressing) as you go on! I just wish she had a plainer writing style that I didn't have to keep re-reading when half asleep...

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Hatty65 · 11/01/2026 16:28

I also DNF. It was so depressing and enraging.

Beachtastic · 11/01/2026 16:30

Hatty65 · 11/01/2026 16:28

I also DNF. It was so depressing and enraging.

Yes, that's what I'm struggling with! I don't look forward to opening it... I swear I could feel the cortisol in my veins last night just reading about her predicament 😬

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CatWithThreeLegs · 12/01/2026 08:18

I have this on my kindle, bought a few years ago. I'm thinking maybe I don't want to read it after all. I could do without the added stress. It will go into my "Will Probably Delete" file.

Beachtastic · 12/01/2026 11:08

CatWithThreeLegs · 12/01/2026 08:18

I have this on my kindle, bought a few years ago. I'm thinking maybe I don't want to read it after all. I could do without the added stress. It will go into my "Will Probably Delete" file.

I'm not sure how much longer I can go on reading it, at least in bed at night. He was just so, so wicked, and women were so, so trapped on all sides... I can't handle the stress!

It's the sort of book I'd like to finish reading, but perhaps in a sunny armchair one afternoon, if I ever get that opportunity...

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Beachtastic · 17/01/2026 11:37

Quick update: Kindle tells me I have reached the 50% mark. This is the point at which Mary reaches an all-time low, but a few women enter her life who are about to help her, so things can be expected to take a better turn!

I suppose this follows the classic narrative structure, but I did find it a struggle to get this far as it was all so unrelenting.

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Beachtastic · 19/01/2026 10:18

Another quick update: I followed my own advice and finished reading it in a comfy armchair yesterday afternoon.

And O.M.G. 🤯😱🤯😱🤯😱🤯😱😫😫😫

The second half of the book takes a dramatic turn, with non-stop action that had my jaw on the floor. That poor woman! But at least in the second half, the tides of fortune start to turn in her favour.

I say "the tides of fortune" but what makes it all so infuriating is how much Georgian society permitted men to behave like monsters, whatever the impact on women and children.

It has a happy ending, sort of. But SPOILER ALERT I was enraged by the final development, which I will reveal below, so STOP READING NOW if there is any chance you might return to/finish this book! I'm inserting the spoiler as an image in smaller text to give you the option of avoiding it 😎

On a trivial but irritating note, there are some copyediting errors, e.g. "seamy revelations" (steamy?) and "pedal monstrous lies" (peddle).

Anyway, it's done and I'm glad I read it, but am now looking forward to reading something more cheerful before I fall asleep at night!

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Beachtastic · 19/01/2026 10:20

So much for the smaller text, sorry, the image has magnified it. But I'm hoping you can't read the full text without clicking on it 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

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CatWithThreeLegs · 19/01/2026 13:05

Well done for finishing it, but your spoiler has pretty much confirmed that I really don't want to read it now. What a vile man😡

Beachtastic · 19/01/2026 14:28

CatWithThreeLegs · 19/01/2026 13:05

Well done for finishing it, but your spoiler has pretty much confirmed that I really don't want to read it now. What a vile man😡

Yes, it's unbearable!

I suppose this is a caveat to writers: don't write about something that is unreadable for reasons beyond your control 😫 😞

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