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📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚

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MotherofPearl · 15/03/2024 18:12

Welcome to the Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group, where we read and discuss fiction from the 1930s to the 1990s that would have been described as 'contemporary' in its day.

The best introduction to the 'rather dated' concept would be to read the wonderful thread which inspired this group:

www.mumsnet.com/talk/what_were_reading/4596284-rather-dated?reply=119670989

To summarise, a number of posters expressed disappointment that literature of the 20th Century is often dismissed as 'rather dated' because society has moved on from many of the values and lifestyles described.

Previous posters decided to create a reading group where the literary merits of such fiction can be appreciated, with any 'rather dated' elements being a point of interest rather than a reason to dismiss a novel.

We read one book a month. Our first book, that inspired the original thread, was The Road to Lichfield by Penelope Lively. We have been going for about 18 months now, and each new book gets its own discussion thread, started on the first of the month.

Our March 2024 book is Penelope Fitzgerald's The Bookshop. We will begin the discussion of this on 1 April.

Please do join the thread whether you want to take part in the discussion or just place mark to follow it.

Fellow Rather Dated people, please add anything important I might have missed!

(With huge thanks to ImJustMadAboutSaffron for the original thread and idea).

I hope Antarcticant, who started the last thread, won’t mind that I’ve started this new one.

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Terpsichore · 04/04/2026 21:29

We've been very industrious @FuzzyCaoraDhubh 😂 but also read a lot of great books.

I like @StellaOlivetti 's suggestion of a Beryl Bainbridge next, perhaps?

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 04/04/2026 21:34

There's hardly a book on the list that I didn't like.

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 11:44

Me neither, @FuzzyCaoraDhubh . I wasn’t all that keen on Black Narcissus, and I did find Messalina of the suburbs a bit sad. Everything else was great.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 11:54

I think that 'An Academic Question' was one of the few books I didn't really like.
'Messalina' was a strange one. It was interesting, though!

Shall we go with a Beryl Bainbridge as our April read?

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 12:03

I’d be delighted with that, if everyone else agrees … which one?

Terpsichore · 05/04/2026 12:15

I'd be very happy with a Bainbridge. Does anyone have any strong preferences as to which one? Some of her early ones (eg A Quiet Life, An Awfully Big Adventure) tend to be quite autobiographical but later she got more interested in history with books like Master Georgie, Every Man for Himself and According to Queeney. But there are plenty to choose from.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 14:32

I don't mind at all, @Terpsichore, so long as I can get it on Kindle. Would you like to choose one?

Terpsichore · 05/04/2026 18:48

How about An Awfully Big Adventure? What does everyone else think? Happy to go with other suggestions!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 05/04/2026 19:46

That sounds good to me! Happy to go along with that.

Waawo · 05/04/2026 20:52

I’ve never read any Bainbridge so happy with any :)

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 22:39

Do you all live in Suffolk??? I’ve just reserved it from the library, and I’m fourth in the queue (one copy). I’ll have to buy second hand.

Terpsichore · 06/04/2026 09:24

StellaOlivetti · 05/04/2026 22:39

Do you all live in Suffolk??? I’ve just reserved it from the library, and I’m fourth in the queue (one copy). I’ll have to buy second hand.

Oh dear, no - sorry, @StellaOlivetti! I think I’ve got a paperback somewhere…but where, is the eternal question!

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 06/04/2026 09:30

I'm definitely not in Suffolk :)
I've reserved a copy from the library, but I'll get it on Kindle if it doesn't come through.

CrochetGrannySquare · 06/04/2026 21:21

Sounds good to me too.

FuzzyCaoraDhubh · 07/04/2026 09:04

We have chosen our April book @MotherofPearl, An Awfully Big Adventure by Beryl Bainbridge.

Everyone on this thread is welcome to join in too.

MotherofPearl · 07/04/2026 16:04

Thanks Fuzzy; that’s great. I’ll get cracking on An Awfully Big Adventure as soon as I’m back at home (currently on holiday in the beautiful Scottish Highlands). It’s great to see the full list of all the books we’ve read on the thread. My favourite so far was The Feast, I think.

At the moment I’m reading Mrs Ames by E.F. Benson, which I think someone on here recommended. I’m enjoying it very much indeed. The stakes are all so wonderfully low - a chance to really enter into parochial small town life and its pettiness!

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CrochetGrannySquare · 08/04/2026 02:33

Thanks for compiling the list of books read @Terpsichore

CrochetGrannySquare · 08/04/2026 20:07

Oh, we're going to be reading the Booker Prize monthly spotlight pick for April.

Terpsichore · 08/04/2026 20:43

CrochetGrannySquare · 08/04/2026 20:07

Oh, we're going to be reading the Booker Prize monthly spotlight pick for April.

Ha - that’s a total coincidence!

CrochetGrannySquare · 10/04/2026 07:33

I'm about half way through An Awfully Big Adventure and have had a laugh out loud moment. Always pleasantly surprised when a book can do that.

Waawo · 11/04/2026 10:04

Look what just arrived :)

📚The Mumsnet 'Rather Dated' Book Group - All welcome to join📚
tobee · 11/04/2026 15:10

Hooray hooray! I love Beryl Bainbridge and have this in my tbr piles pile

Terpsichore · 11/04/2026 20:39

CrochetGrannySquare · 10/04/2026 07:33

I'm about half way through An Awfully Big Adventure and have had a laugh out loud moment. Always pleasantly surprised when a book can do that.

Was it the Eccles cakes, @CrochetGrannySquare ? 😂

CrochetGrannySquare · 12/04/2026 14:29

A bit later on, involving upholstery @Terpsichore but the Eccles cakes made me smile.

NoCommentingFromNowOn · 13/04/2026 19:05

Are you the group that were reading Enchanted April? I remember seeing it in Active some time ago. If so, I’ve just seen the radio dramatisation of it is on 4extra today, the first episode of five.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b05rnx7m?partner=uk.co.bbc&origin=share-mobile

The Enchanted April by Elizabeth von Arnim - 1. To Those who Appreciate Wisteria and Sunshine - BBC Sounds

An ad in The Times lures four women away from rainy London to a castle on the Riviera.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sounds/play/b05rnx7m?origin=share-mobile&partner=uk.co.bbc