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Is there a book that you have received as a present that you absolutely loved

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heartsinvisiblefury · 29/11/2023 18:04

We're buying books for adults this Christmas and I'm stumped as to what to get a few people - is there a book that you received or were recommended that you absolutely loved?

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Mothership4two · 29/11/2023 18:56

The Salt Path by Raynor Winn but that was a few years ago. It wasn't my usual type of read, so I was a bit surprised to be given it. Another surprisingly interesting read was Islands of Abandonment: Life in the Post-Human Landscape by Cal Flyn about natural renaturing of abandoned human environments - all a bit of a mouthful for a good and accessible book.

Amazon are doing a Best Books of 2023 and Goodreads have their Choice Awards 2023 (not yet finalised) to get some ideas.

Keepithidden · 29/11/2023 18:58

Completely against all my previous tastes in books, I was given a copy of "Cold Comfort Farm". I had zero expectations, didn't realise it was a comedy and thoroughly enjoyed it!

Arrestedforit · 29/11/2023 18:59

The Enchanted April was a surprise gift last year. Written in the 1920s it was a surprisingly warm, funny and beautiful read.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Enchanted_April

The Enchanted April - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Enchanted_April

Mothership4two · 29/11/2023 19:05

Keepithidden · 29/11/2023 18:58

Completely against all my previous tastes in books, I was given a copy of "Cold Comfort Farm". I had zero expectations, didn't realise it was a comedy and thoroughly enjoyed it!

That is one of my all time favourites and I reread every now and again and it always lifts my spirits. The TV film was funny too

Mischance · 29/11/2023 19:08

My late OH gave this to me - it was an unexpected choice, but is a truly wonderful book shot through with wit. Definitely to be recommended.

I wrote a review of it:

The Unexpected Professor: An Oxford Life in Books, by John Carey

As is to be expected from an Emeritus Professor at Oxford and a Fellow of the British Academy, John Carey's autobiography is erudite and witty, but more surprisingly charming, warm and full of self-deprecatory humour. He shares with us his life's literary journey from Biggles, via Tarka the Otter to Milton, Shakespeare, Dickens, Golding, Thackeray and so many more.

Along the way we are treated to vignettes from and analyses of some of the world's greatest literature, about which he is often refreshingly scathing: on Dostoyevsy “I find his plots rambling and (full of) sentimental religiosity”; Cervantes' Don Quixote is “boring and hateful”; Plato “nonsense”; and Thackeray's The Virginians “soporific at a pharmaceutical level.” It is tempting to imagine that my shared views on some of these and other works may not simply be borne out of my own lack of erudition; just as it was a “great relief” to him to discover in his late teens that he had been “misinformed” about females' lack of interest in sexual activity.

We are also enlightened about the pitifully puerile rituals, traditions, and rivalries of Oxford colleges. It is hard to credit that some of our greatest intellects can be party to such despair-inducing nonsense. What price world peace? But, left-leaning in his politics and true to his grammar school roots, Carey sets about trying to widen the intake of Oxford colleges and bring the syllabus into the 21st century by introducing for the first time the study of modern literature.

He treats us to a list of the 20 favourite books that he has reviewed, which are hugely varied and include Frank Muir's autobiography “A Kentish Lad”, Michael Frayn's “The Human Touch: Our Part in the Creation of the Universe”, and Robert R Provine's “Laughter: A Scientific Investigation.” I am tempted to acquire Carey's “Pure Pleasure: A Guide to the Twentieth Century's Most Enjoyable Books.” I suspect there will be much to learn and delight in.

On religion, he concludes that: “Though I thought of myself as an agnostic, I was really a Christian who just did not happen to believe in God.” Borne out of his childhood experiences as a choirboy and remembering the words of the Magnificat, he found that: “My belief........that the mighty and the rich deserved to be humbled and go hungry …. had outlasted my belief in God.”

And his humour? Whilst in Egypt on National Service and having inadvertently discharged a .38 revolver into the sleeping company lines, he is hauled before the major. “Standing to attention before his desk, I was forced to admire, with a small detached literary-critical portion of my mind, the colour, variety, cogency, rhetorical incisiveness and dramatic force of his language, even though its purport was far from complimentary to me.”

It is intriguing to share time with a man who has devoted his every waking moment to reading and the analysis of literature. Is this pure self-indulgence or a worthwhile way to spend a life? He makes out a good case: “Reading distrusts certainty.......punctures pomp......is contemptuous of luxury.....makes you see that ordinary things are not ordinary. Reading is vast, like the sea, but you can dip into it anywhere and be refreshed. Reading takes you into other minds and makes them part of your own. Reading releases you from the limits of yourself. Reading is freedom.”

Or it can simply be an unexpected delight, as is this book.

Mischance · 29/11/2023 19:14

Arrestedforit - Elizabeth von Arnim is a brilliant writer - thank you for reminding me!

tigerbear · 29/11/2023 19:16

How To Kill Your Family 😄

mathanxiety · 29/11/2023 20:14

A book called '1947', by Elizabeth Asbrink. It drew me in.

I also loved the Patrick Leigh Fermor travel trilogy.

I tend to like history though.

clowniform · 29/11/2023 21:56

I don't receive many books (lots of book tokens) but last year loved The Gilded Page by Mary Wellesley, Reynard the Fox by Ann Louise Avery, The Song of the Cell by Siddharta Mukherjee and Jane Austen's Wardrobe by Hilary Davidson. All are illustrated so really work best on paper.

Special editions of old favourites are also wonderful (not necessarily fancy Folio ones or gilded hardbacks etc. but a cover with some significance to you/giftee).

nocoolnamesleft · 29/11/2023 21:57

Uprooted by Naomi Novik. I've since read everything by her.

cansu · 29/11/2023 22:06

Lovely box set of Agatha Christie audio CDs of all the Hercule Poirot stories. I also had a set of all the Harry Potter books in a nice box which I loved.

heartsinvisiblefury · 29/11/2023 22:32

Thank you! Lots of good recommendations here

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Mothership4two · 30/11/2023 06:46

My son was given the complete Agatha Christie audio boxset when he was 13 @cansu and loved them.

withbelzon · 01/12/2023 23:12

A couple of Christmases ago someone bought me Nine Perfect Strangers by Liane Moriarty, which I loved. It's about 9 people who go to a health farm which isn't all that it seems. I've now read some other books by the same author, and enjoyed them all.

Needmorelego · 01/12/2023 23:18

@withbelzon My sister gave me Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty a few years ago. I had finished it by Boxing Day and searching out all her other books soon after.
(oddly though I have yet to get around to reading Nine Perfect Strangers)

ariel333 · 01/12/2023 23:56

I'll go to bed at noon by Gerard Woodward about alcoholism in a family. Brilliant.

peachgreen · 01/12/2023 23:57

Hamnet. Life-changingly good.

Mothership4two · 02/12/2023 06:18

Nine Perfect Strangers is available on Amazon Prime @withbelzon and @Needmorelego. Nicole Kidman is particularly good in it - she does charming nuttiness well!

TheMainChristmasCharacter · 02/12/2023 07:01

I got given Wool (Hugh Howey) a few years ago and loved it. It’s one of the few books I’ve read in recent years that I’ve reread.

SIL passed The Last Summer by Karen Swan on to me in the summer and I really enjoyed that and am enjoying her other books too.

I was also passed on Sorrow and Bliss by Meg Mason which has stayed with me but not sure I’d give it as a gift as it’s quite depressing.

Mothership4two · 02/12/2023 07:07

Ooh I have the Wool series on Kindle - through the 99p deals. That's my Christmas reading list sorted.

autienotnaughty · 02/12/2023 07:09

The seven husbands of Evelyn Hugo is excellent

EmpressaurusOfCats · 02/12/2023 07:15

Maybe a bit niche, but The Thrilling Adventures of Lovelace & Babbage by Sydney Padua.

It’s a graphic novel about an alternative universe where Ada Lovelace & Charles Babbage build the Difference Engine and use it to fight crime - of sorts.

pumpkintits · 02/12/2023 07:17

When I was about 13 my grandparents got me "The Amulet of Samarkand", the first book from The Bartimaeous Trilogy by Jonathan Stroud. I had never heard of it but it's an amazing book. I finished it and when I found out it was the first of a trilogy I asked my grandparents if the next Christmas they could get me the second book which they did, and the following Christmas the third one.

The author released a fourth prequel a few years later as well which was great.

Probably not the best suggestion for you OP as they are young adult/teenage books, however I am re-reading them for the first time in years and I had forgotten just how witty the books are. Such an underrated series! So it anyone has a teenager to buy for, or an adult who doesn't usually read and would want something really easy to get into I would thoroughly suggest these books.

withbelzon · 02/12/2023 08:06

Mothership4two · 02/12/2023 06:18

Nine Perfect Strangers is available on Amazon Prime @withbelzon and @Needmorelego. Nicole Kidman is particularly good in it - she does charming nuttiness well!

Yes, thanks, I've seen it. I did enjoy it, and Nicole Kidman is always brilliant, but the book is better. 🙂 I loved how the characters of the "strangers" developed from unlikeable to lovable as their stories unfolded. It was laugh-out-loud funny in places, but made me tearful in others. It is set in Australia, but the tv series is set in the US, so didn't quite have the same charm for me.

Amazon Prime have also made a series of Big Little Lies with Nicole Kidman and Reese Witherspoon.