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Fairylights7 · 20/05/2023 20:42

(think between aged 45 and 55) which is not about menopause or trying to fit everything in and is a positive portrayal of middle age life? Thanks

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DuckonaBike · 20/05/2023 20:45

How about Mrs Dalloway? (Virginia Woolf)

Neighneigh · 20/05/2023 20:47

Have you read Raynor Winn's three books? Salt Path is the first, the story of losing everything but finding solace in walking.

Fairylights7 · 20/05/2023 20:51

I’ve just read the brief of Mrs D and it doesn’t seem to offer a positive portrayal of a middle aged woman unfortunately, but thank you. The Salt Path does fit the bill but have already read this one. Looking for my bookclub as we want to read a book about people like us that paints middle age in a positive light. Any further suggestions would be great x

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junebirthdaygirl · 20/05/2023 20:52

Elizabeth Strouts series On Lucy Barton is good l think..4 in the series and need to be read in order.
Good writer anyway.

Hobbes8 · 20/05/2023 20:53

Gosh that shouldn’t be a difficult ask, should it? It’s like a book version of the Bechdel test! Rodham and American Wife, both by Curtis Sittenfeld, are fictionalised accounts of Hillary Clinton and Barbara Bush respectively. They span quite a lot of their lives, but definitely include positive accounts of middle age. Anne Tyler’s books often have ordinary middle aged women living normal lives (but generally a bit wistful about something).

AdamRyan · 20/05/2023 20:54

Appletree yard, its not a "positive" portrayal as such but the main character is of that vintage and I found it very refreshing to read a book featuring a middle aged woman where her age was largely irrelevant to the plot.

AdamRyan · 20/05/2023 20:55

Or "The actresses" by Barbara Ewing is all about a group of older female friends with a broad range of characters

Fairylights7 · 20/05/2023 20:59

Hobbes8 · 20/05/2023 20:53

Gosh that shouldn’t be a difficult ask, should it? It’s like a book version of the Bechdel test! Rodham and American Wife, both by Curtis Sittenfeld, are fictionalised accounts of Hillary Clinton and Barbara Bush respectively. They span quite a lot of their lives, but definitely include positive accounts of middle age. Anne Tyler’s books often have ordinary middle aged women living normal lives (but generally a bit wistful about something).

Agree, where are the positive inspiring stories! But we couldn’t think of any male equivalents either 🙈

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DuranNotSpandeau · 20/05/2023 21:00

Not specifically about middle age, but Great Circle by Maggie Shipstead is an incredible novel about a woman who lives a very unconventional, single-minded life. Beautifully written, and the sort of fascinating story that makes you wish it was based on a real person so you could read more about them.🙂

efeslight · 20/05/2023 21:02

Might not be what you are looking for, but what about Ann Cleeves' Vera series?
She is an older detective, a bit lonely but loves her job and has a few younger detectives she likes to boss around

chickbean · 20/05/2023 21:03

"The woman in the middle" by Milly Johnson. Milly is my guilty pleasure. Chick lit with a sense of humour.

isthewashingdryyet · 20/05/2023 21:06

Revenge of the middle aged woman.

there was a very similar request not long ago, so have a look in that thread for ideas

StamppotAndGravy · 20/05/2023 21:07

Not a female author or everyday setting, but the witches series by Terry Pratchett have middle aged female main characters.

PermanentTemporary · 20/05/2023 21:08

Maybe try Life after Life? A range of ages involved there.

The ones I can think of are all very old and inappropriate. Interesting.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 20/05/2023 21:12

As @isthewashingdryyet Revenge of the Middle Aged Woman, Elizabeth Buchan.

YaWeeSkitter · 20/05/2023 21:13

Maeve Binchy - Night of Rain and stars from memory which includes a more mature woman living her normal life. Several of Maeves books might fit the bill but iuts such a long time since Ive read them I cant be sure which ones now.
Maeve Binchy - Book Series In Order should be able to help .

Maeve Binchy - Book Series In Order

Complete order of Maeve Binchy books in Publication Order and Chronological Order.

https://www.bookseriesinorder.com/maeve-binchy/

Fairylights7 · 20/05/2023 21:13

Thanks for signposting the other thread, very helpful! Still think there is a gap in the market for positive books about women between the ages of 45 to 60ish!

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midlifecrash · 20/05/2023 21:17

the Lucia books?

BigMosLittleSister · 20/05/2023 21:17

I'm currently reading Hags by Victoria Smith which doesn't fit the bill at all, but might explain the lack of novels with a positive middle aged female protagonist ☺ I'll start a thread on it when I've finished (if there isn't one already!)

EmpressaurusOfCats · 20/05/2023 21:49

Just Got Real, by Jane Fallon. It’s about three women whose ages range from early 40s to early 60s, & while none of them are perfect, they’re all portrayed positively.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 20/05/2023 22:04

@BigMosLittleSister there is a thread already.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 20/05/2023 22:05

As you were @BigMosLittleSister , I see you've found it.

newtowelsplease · 20/05/2023 23:00

efeslight · 20/05/2023 21:02

Might not be what you are looking for, but what about Ann Cleeves' Vera series?
She is an older detective, a bit lonely but loves her job and has a few younger detectives she likes to boss around

Came to say this. I love Vera Star

Alcemeg · 20/05/2023 23:05

I really enjoyed "The Emergence of Judy Taylor"

Gonksmum · 20/05/2023 23:18

Just finished Black Butterflies by Priscilla Morris. It's protagonist is a 55 year old artist/ lecturer and it's set during the seige of Sarajevo in '92. I did enjoy it, in the main. Worth a look.

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