My adult daughter is doing a book exchange and has been paired with a woman in Germany who has sent a specific description of a type of book she would like. They have become friends online so this isn't as cheeky as it sounds and she doesn't expect all the criteria to be met in one book necessarily. The book will be written in the English language preferably by a British author.
The description is: books in a military setting focusing on soldiers, set after WWII not Russians or Americans, no overglorification of war, romance not being the main plot. She's okay with crime, classics, urban/low fantasy and read and enjoyed D.H. Lawrence, Orson Wells, Jane Austen, Thomas Hardy. She doesn't own anything by Agatha Christie but likes that style.
My DD has asked my advice and my mind has gone blank so I thought I would ask the hive mind of MN readers for advice.
Can anyone help?