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Literary wedding readings

21 replies

Lucylocks222 · 20/01/2022 19:26

Hi everyone,

I’m looking for some beautiful readings for my wedding. Ideally literary. Extracts from books or poems… but would welcome any suggestions. I am feeling uninspired and all of the blogs/websites I’ve looked at the suggest the same old ones.
If it helps… first marriage, in our thirties with a young child who we adore. So we would also be open to any that talk about ‘family’ as much as love.

Please help!

OP posts:
DesdemonaDryEyes · 20/01/2022 19:27

Velveteen Rabbit

HeddaGarbled · 20/01/2022 19:42

A birthday by Christina Rossetti

shepabear · 20/01/2022 19:48

This is my favourite and was read at our wedding: amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/251375/

millymae · 20/01/2022 20:00

If I was the OP I would be going for shepabear’s suggestion ……

DesdamonasHandkerchief · 22/01/2022 18:25

There's a passage from Captain Correlli's Mandolin that's popular at weddings the one about true love being what's left behind when the volcano of lust has died down and the tree roots have entwined. Horribly mixing my metaphors there but a quick google search would find it!

DesdemonaDryEyes · 22/01/2022 22:07

Hello my handkerchief @DesdamonasHandkerchief

TheHuntingoftheSnark · 22/01/2022 22:44

onefabday.com/ceremony-reading-invisible-kisses-by-lemn-sissay/

wiltonian · 22/01/2022 23:02

There are some wonderful e e cummings love poems

Spottybotty20 · 22/01/2022 23:28

I think we had this one onefabday.com/ceremony-reading-farewell-arms-excerpt-ernest-hemingway/

hivemindneeded · 22/01/2022 23:33

Sonnet 116:
BY WILLIAM SHAKESPEARE
Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove.
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wand'ring bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come;
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me prov'd,
I never writ, nor no man ever lov'd.

On Marriage by Khalil Gibran

You were born together, and together you shall be forevermore.
You shall be together when the white wings of death scatter your days.
Ay, you shall be together even in the silent memory of God.
But let there be spaces in your togetherness,
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you.

 Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
  Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.
  Fill each other’s cup but drink not from one cup.
  Give one another of your bread but eat not from the same loaf.
  Sing and dance together and be joyous, but let each one of your be alone,
  Even as the strings of the lute are alone though they quiver with the same music.

 Give your hearts, but not into each other’s keeping.
  For only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
  And stand together yet not too near together:
  For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
  And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow.
hivemindneeded · 22/01/2022 23:37

@shepabear

This is my favourite and was read at our wedding: amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/251375/
@shepabear - that is so lovely. Such love from the father to the son there too.
ErrmWTAF · 22/01/2022 23:51

"It is a truth universally acknowledged that a young man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife"

See how they like dem apples. 😯

DesdamonasHandkerchief · 23/01/2022 00:00

Hello dry eyes  @DesdemonaDryEyes Grin

onitlikeacarbonnet · 23/01/2022 00:04

The owl and the pussycat.

ShinyPikachu · 23/01/2022 00:20

I posted this one on a similar post the other day. It's from Philip Pullman's The Amber Spyglass.

Literary wedding readings
Tullig · 25/01/2022 10:46

@ErrmWTAF

"It is a truth universally acknowledged that a young man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife"

See how they like dem apples. 😯

Grin

Honestly, I’d only choose novel extracts if you know the novel well. The Captain Corelli reading freaks me out because it must be chosen by people who haven’t read the novel, and the Farewell to Arms one is about a relationship that ends in a stillborn baby and the mother’s death in childbirth.

Which is obviously not to say you shouldn’t have them, only make sure you’re ok with the extract in its context.

BowerOfBramble · 25/01/2022 11:25

What's your vibe OP? Romantic? Funny? Solemn?

Any particular interests you or your f have?

DesdamonasHandkerchief · 25/01/2022 18:54

Captain Correlli's Mandolin is one of the greatest love stories of all time, why would reading the novel put you off? It's set during the Second World War but I don't see how that affects the sentiment of the quote taken from it.

Tullig · 26/01/2022 09:51

@DesdamonasHandkerchief

Captain Correlli's Mandolin is one of the greatest love stories of all time, why would reading the novel put you off? It's set during the Second World War but I don't see how that affects the sentiment of the quote taken from it.
I think it’s a deeply schlocky novel myself, but the context of the speech, which is in fact a warning from a father to his daughter about the danger of venereal disease and pregnancy if she sleeps with her lover — let alone the fact that she then falls out of love with said lover, he tries to rape her and then kills himself, while the man she does actually love is kept away from her for a lifetime because of a case of mistaken identity he doesn’t use his words to inquire about— is key to what it means.
DesdamonasHandkerchief · 02/02/2022 17:06

Tullig the quote is in chapter 47, 'Dr Iannis Counsels His Daughter'. He is not counselling her about her love for Mandras, the Greek to whom you refer, but about her love for Corelli. He counsels against falling in love with Corelli because she is still technically betrothed to Mandras and Corelli is part of the invading army.
I wouldn't have it my wedding either because I think it's too popular 🤷‍♀️ but I doubt few people would be put off by the wider context of the novel - the quote about love is what people are listening to in a church.

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