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Novels which explore mother/son relationships - any examples?

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ArgosTheDog · 26/02/2018 22:35

Father/son, father/daughter and mother/daughter relationships seem to be much more commonly explored in novels than mother/son relationships.

Can anyone suggest any novels which explore mother/son relationships?

The only one I can think of is one of the Patrick Melrose series of novels by Edward St Aubyn.

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Pansiesandredrosesandmarigolds · 01/03/2018 16:00

Peter Wimsey & Francis Crawford both have excellent mothers.

Mercurial123 · 02/03/2018 14:28

I read Sons & Lovers at A level too I loved it. I've read it three times since.

ArgosTheDog · 04/03/2018 22:06

Thanks everyone for your replies.

I'm not necessarily looking for examples where the relationship is central to the book....just where it's more than fleetingly touched on.

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MrsEricBana · 04/03/2018 22:11

"Kevin" is so powerful and, as is always said, it is simply astonishing that Lionel Shriver could have written it despite having no children.

AliasGrape · 04/03/2018 22:22

Love in the Present Tense - Catherine Ryan Hyde

The main protagonist/narrator’s relationship with their mother is important and quite well explored in both The World According to Garp and (I think I’m remembering right) A Prayer for Owen Meaney Both by John Irving.

The Banyan Tree - Christopher Nolan

Hygge · 05/03/2018 07:22

I love "Kevin", it's one of my favourite books.

Ann Tyler's books Dinner at the Homesick Restaurant and The Clock Winder aren't strictly Mother/Son relationship books but they do both feature family relationships and how the adult children relate to their mother and each other.

Homesick has a woman with two sons and a daughter, Clock Winder has a woman with four sons (Timothy, Matthew, Andrew, and PJ) I think.

They might not be exactly what you were wanting in terms of Mother/Son relationships but An Tyler is a wonderful author and all of her books explore relationships and the dynamics of those relationships, and they are well worth a read.

auberginesrus · 05/03/2018 22:29

Heard a trailer on radio 4 tonight for a Lauren Laverne programme on Sunday afternoon exploring how mother/son relationships are explored in art, film and literature. Thought of this thread Smile

ArgosTheDog · 05/03/2018 22:58

oooo! Thanks @auberginesrus

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windchimesabotage · 05/03/2018 23:01

We Need To Talk About kevin is amazing but yes very bleak

windchimesabotage · 05/03/2018 23:02

I just thought of North and South by Elizabeth Gaskill. That has quite an interesting mother son relationship in

AndNoneForGretchenWieners · 05/03/2018 23:03

A Dark Adapted Eye by Barbara Vine has an interesting mother/son dynamic.

TooManyMiles · 05/03/2018 23:06

Oedipus Rex - Sopocles Grin Kikash

essietopcoat · 06/03/2018 11:05

The Crying tree by Naseem Rakha is really good.

It is another bleak one, definitely, but uplifting. For some reason my copy has a photo of a young girl on the front cover - no idea why really as the mother and son are the main characters.

Tawdrylocalbrouhaha · 10/03/2018 17:53

Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout made me cry when my DS was tiny. The mother-son relationship is one of many in the book, but it was the one that stuck with me.

katieflorins · 10/03/2018 17:57

The Shining actually has some really interesting insights into a Mum who's own mother hasn't been a great one, and who struggles a bit with her son because of it, and bonds with him more too.

mrsnec · 10/03/2018 18:14

Falling for Icarus? Whilst it doesn't explore the relationship exactly it's about the son's determination to achieve his dreams whilst grieving the death of his mother.

Toomuchsplother · 10/03/2018 20:06

Sons and lovers was my first thought.
One of the best and most memorable is in the Cazalet Chronicles. It's the relationship between Michael and his mother. I think they appear in book 3 (possibly 2 - will have to check!) It is based on the real life relationship between Peter Scott and his mother.
Recently I have read Perfect by Rachel Joyce which has a very central mother and son relationship.

CaptainNelson · 10/03/2018 23:07

@Hygge ooh yes, Anne Tyler! She's brilliant at it - she's really amazing at exploring family relationships.
The one that sprang to my mind when I read the question was Patrick Gale's Notes from an Exhibition. It's not strictly about just the mother and the son, but I really loved its exploration of the conflict of being a mother vs being a woman.

starkid · 10/03/2018 23:14

The truth about Melody Browne by Lisa Jewell

TheCommoner · 10/03/2018 23:19

Mothers' Boys by Margaret Forster.

Nakedavenger74 · 11/03/2018 02:22

Not a novel but Nigel Slaters Toast talks deeply about his relationship with his mother and step mothers

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