Ok, we said we'd come back to this once a few people had had a chance to read it.
I found it the most affecting book I have read in a long time and keep thinking about it. I read it at a tricky time - the anniversary of my Dad's death, which made it even more resonant for me. I think it's fantastic on the ways we deal with grief - the no-man's land between a death and a funeral when you can be so overwhelmed that you can slip out of your normal life and relationships and behave in ways that are quite unlike your normal self. It's a book all about loss, of a friend, a child, I think also of the narrator's self as person, as a mother and partner. It's beautifully written - the way she conjures up Livvy almost made me long for a small baby to cart around with me! I'd be intereste dto hear what others made of it.