Georgina - forgot to say, good idea to re-read. I read them so quickly that I probably missed loads.
Yes, Pot, Louise's father drunkenly tries to kiss her one night. But in a way, her r-ship with her mother is worse - her mother just seems to hate her, and I'm not sure it's really defined why. Unless her mother (Villy) suspected Louise's father of fancying his daughter, and subconsciously transferred her horror of this onto her daughter. Also like all women at the time, she gave up everything to get married.
The other thing that fascinated me about the books was the sexual innocence of women at the time. They mainly have very unsatisfactory sex lives with their husbands - sex essentially seems to be something that's 'done' to them, and that's the way the husbands seem to prefer it. Also, Rachel, the lesbian, doesn't realise for ages that she could actually go to bed with her lover.
I'll hunt out some more EJH books, but will probably take a break, as I don't have time for anything so involving, having neglected dh, kids etc for the last week!