Hi
I’m at my wits end and my weight is really starting to affect my mental health. I’m huge and can not bear to even look in the mirror now.
I was 11 1/2 stone at 5ft 9 so BMI of 24ish for 20+ years so not thin but happy with how I looked. Moderate exercise and ‘sensible’ non restrictive diet.
Then at 49 I started perimenopause and fast forward through to menopause. In 2 years, I did nothing different regarding exercise and actually started to limit my diet but put on 2 stone. Then tried uping exercise and stating to reduce calories and am now down to less than 1000 calories a day but still putting in weight - another half stone in 5 months. Been to the doctors multiple times - had a thyroid and a diabetes check which were both fine so now keep being told there is nothing wrong. Exercise is getting harder and harder as I’m just too heavy now. Joints and back ache regularly so I’m desperate…..so please could someone /anyone answer …
1/. I am eating about 1000 calories a day. I can manage that without feeling too hungry but any less than that is a struggle - will it help me to be able to live on 500 or so a day without feeling very hungry all of the time?
2/. I started in referral form using Bolt as it was recommended as the cheapest one in another thread but it asked if they had permission to inform my doctor. I clicked no and it said they couldnt prescribe. Does anyone know any stockiest where this isn’t a pre-requisite. I don’t want my doctors to know. I don’t want to be dragged in and talked to like a naughty 3 year old when they find out or have to explain myself to someone who thinks gaining a bit (!) of weight is ‘normal’ in menopause and I should be ‘body positive.’
3/. Are there any foods you have to avoid or do you just eat your normal food but less of it?
4/. side effects - I’ve read them. Can you take anything for constipation or is it contraindicated?
Thanks in advance.