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I don't suppose anyone wants to be my boss/controller/dictator, do they? [hopeful] [desperate]

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Hecate · 16/07/2008 07:44

I've just weighed myself and I've put nearly half a stone back on -at self!

I really want to hand control of my eating over to someone else I know that's crap of me but I just want someone else to take the responsibility and I can follow their instructions - how stupid is that!

So does anyone want to tell me what to have for lunch and dinner today? I had a banana chopped into some fatfree yoghurt for breakfast.

  • I'm feeling pretty crap about it all. I just want someone to 'take over'. Now, all messing about aside - I do know nobody can do that, and it's all down to me, I'm just talking about my emotions and a need to just 'give' my problem to someone else to deal with. Just for a bit.
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Hecate · 16/07/2008 12:02

yes, you can make or buy. Juvela is the best bread - most GF bread is bitty and horrible! juvela is quite spongy.

If you're baking with GF flour, add Xanthan gum to it - that was a tip given to me by another MNer. - and it does make a massive difference!

thanks jahan. That one also looks good.

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OrmIrian · 16/07/2008 12:03

Thankyou hecate.

BecauseImWorthIt · 16/07/2008 18:04

I started low carbing in around 2003. I read Charles Clarke and Atkins and then decided I would just do my own thing and see what happened.

Doing Atkins properly is very strict and I wasn't really sure about it. The first two weeks (induction) are no alcohol, and I didn't want to do that!

So this is what I've pretty much done since then:

I eat no bread, pasta, rice, potatoes, pastry, flour or sugar. This also means no fruit juice and very limited fruit. (I'm not a great fruit fan anyway, so it's not too much of a hardship). If I have any fruit it will be rhubarb, which I love (sweetened with Splenda not sugar), raspberries, blueberries or strawberries.

I minimise consumption of starchy veg such as carrots and parsnips, and beans/pulses are out (which is a shame because I love these. If you eat a low GI diet I believe you can include these, but I haven't tried this)

I eat breakfast every day (I used not to do this in a vain effort to keep my calories down), usually eggs in some form although occasionally I have plain yoghurt (full fat) with fruit as above if I fancy something sweet.

Fat is positively encouraged, and this is very hard to start with, as it runs so counter to all the advice we're given about healthy eating. The first week was a real leap of faith - I couldn't believe that I could eat bacon and eggs for breakfast, use butter on veg and cook with cream but still lose weight - but I did.

Lunch is usually something like chicken or ham or tuna with salad (dressed with an olive oil vinaigrette and sometimes with mayonnaise as well)

For dinner, I have whatever the rest of the family is having (because I'm not going to cook separate meals!), but just avoid the carb component and have extra veg/salad. If I'm cooking pasta then I do something different for me, unless it's bolognese, where I substitute thinly sliced, boiled white cabbage for the pasta. That works surprisingly well.

If I'm making them mashed potatoes, I have either mashed celeriac or swede - with lots of butter!

Salad and green veg in particular is encouraged - veg such as broccoli, spinach, celery, cauliflower, courgettes are all very low carb.

I still drink alcohol, although I am trying to avoid this during the week, as it definitely slows and/or stops weight loss. It is the first source of fuel that your body will use. White or red wine or white spirits with sugar free mixers are fine - beer is not.

I can snack - nuts and cheese are allowed (although you do have to be careful with both!), and there are even sweets/chocolates that can be consumed. Sugar free confectionery is available and Thorntons make diabetic chocolate stuff which is good - but do contain polyols which can cause wind/diarrhoea problems if you eat too much!!!)

That said, the focus of this way of eating is about natural foods as opposed to processed foods. I have always cooked from scratch, so this is OK by me. All the low fat or low cal stuff that I used to buy was full of horrible artificial stuff. Why have horrible low fat spread with goodness knows what in it when you can eat real butter?

I don't worry about portion size - I eat what I want to satisfy my hunger.

In my experience and opinion this is a great way to eat. I can honestly say that I am never hungry. Sometimes I have even forgotten to eat if I'm busy - it can be 2 or even 3pm before I feel hungry.

There are, of course, downsides. Eating on the hoof is very difficult. All on-the-go snacks or meals are carb-based - sandwiches, pastries, sweets, crisps, fruit, chocolates, etc If I'm travelling to a client meeting then I have to plan around this.

And there are times when I feel deprived - I can't eat pasta or potatoes. But then there is deprivation on any diet.

But the best thing is eating out. If you're counting calories, for example, most restaurant meals are difficult. With low carb there is (usually) much more available to you. Restaurants are usually quite happy to serve you a dish without the potatoes or rice and substitute these with a salad or veg. Chinese or Thai are harder, although not impossible to negotiate.

Food, above all, is a pleasure again.

I hope that this is of some help!

Hecate · 16/07/2008 18:07

Thank you. (I joined that site, btw!)

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BecauseImWorthIt · 16/07/2008 18:09

I'll look out for you! (It's much quieter than MN and can take a while to get a reply to a post, but there is some really good advice to be had - and worth searching the archives as well)

OrmIrian · 16/07/2008 22:39

Great site for lcing. Very supportive and informative.

But don't get involved in the other topics board and mention anything about parenting. Specially not if you bf or WOHM!!! Some of them are a little ...erm... old-fashioned.

BecauseImWorthIt · 17/07/2008 07:27

Sadly there's no debating or anything like that on the forum these days. Although people are still posting about LCing, the life and soul (even if it was old fashioned!) is just not there any more. No doubt they've all moved on to other sites - there are 3 of us on MN that I know of!

OrmIrian · 17/07/2008 13:12

Three? You, me and who else? Do tell!

BecauseImWorthIt · 17/07/2008 13:31

lovecat - I think she even used to be a moderator, didn't she?

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