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Ok, I’m obese and I’m addicted to sugar.

45 replies

MyWildOliveGoose · 04/07/2026 20:10

After years of denial, I’m looking at myself now and I think I am obese. I am definitely overweight. I am 4ft11 and 78kg. I think there’s maybe some body dysmorphia there too as I look at myself some days and I feel like I look amazing, other days I feel like I am actually disgustingly horrendous - with no in between.

The main problem is that I am absolutely with no doubt addicted to sugar and believe I should always have a sweet treat if I want one and it’s such a bad habit to break. I have a healthy diet most days starting the day with porridge or Greek yoghurt with fruit, nuts and natural honey and a ginger shot. Lunch is usually an omelette, pasta salad or cous cous filled with protein, dinners are 1/2 protein 1/4 carbs and 1/4 veg portions. Most days I am able to allow myself one sweet treat with any other cravings being satisfied by a sugar free jelly pot or a banana.

On my worst days… I will start the day with tiramisu for breakfast. Yep. It’s true. I then snack all day, and all evening. I will always have a healthy balanced dinner though. Followed by a sweet treat, or two, or three. Most of the time I can pull it back the next day, but sometimes I do struggle for two or three days.

Has anyone had any experience of this, how did you manage to overcome it?

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AgnesMcDoo · 05/07/2026 11:09

On mj I rarely eat anything sweet.

I’m currently on an AI holiday and twice I’ve taken a small slice of pudding and just have a bite for the taste and that’s enough. I don’t want any more.

I’ve gone from BMI 36 to 24.

Daisymae55 · 05/07/2026 11:30

This was me, although I wasn’t quite obese but was on the cusps. Again, massive sugar addict. I’ve lost enough weight to have hit a healthy BMI (just) over the last few months and this is what I’ve done

  • I use nutracheck to log everything I eat. Making sure to weight everything. It’s amazing what you can think is a totally normal portion but is actually 2/3 times what you should be having. It also logs how much fat/sugar etc you’re having as well as calories which has been helpful for me as even when I’d be eating under my calorie limit, I could be way over on sugar
  • exercising in the evening. I’m awful in the evenings and just want to snack. I’ve found exercising then distracts me but also after I am done I don’t really fancy anything.
  • I do allow myself one treat a day. I’ve found a freddo or timeout bar hits the spot without taking too much of my calorie allowance.
It’s taken a hell of a lot of will power but my cravings have massively reduced.
TheChosenTwo · 05/07/2026 11:37

MJ has been transformative for my sugar addiction. It has also taken my BMI from 35 to 20. Now, if I eat something sugary I can just have a piece or two and be satisfied and not eat the whole lot.
i’m still on MJ almost 2 years on and other than a few bouts of constipation and 2 sulphur burps, feeling a bit chilly and some hair loss (maybe this sounds like a lot but over the course of 2 years it’s felt negligible for me) I’ve felt really well, energised and motivated to eat well and look after my body, prioritising nutrition and strength training and more movement in general.
Genuinely life changing and have absolutely loved falling back in love with clothes again and dressing my body in what feels good rather than what fully covers me.

Gardengargoyle · 05/07/2026 14:46

There's evidence now that your cravings are dictated by your gut microbes. If you have a lot of microbes that prefer UFP ingredients with lots of unhealthy fats, sugar and salt then you will crave sweets, UPF ingredients, and greasy fast food.

Shifting the balance towards the health boosting microbes that convert fibre into short chain fatty acids while repairing the inner surface of the gut wall not only improves your health and mood, it also makes you start to actually prefer fresh fruits and vegetables.

I've been working on my gut microbiome since catching a Zoe food science podcast in February 2022 when I was crippled with the worst rheumatoid arthritis flare up of my entire life. Adding 6 small portions of fermented foods to my daily diet seemed a small price to pay if it really would lower my chronic inflammation levels by 20%.

Side effect was that I lost 10.5 kg the first month, and was 40 kgs lighter a year later. I incorporated their other advice into my diet and lifestyle. Whole foods, olive oil, nuts, an average of 30 different plants/week and a 14 hour overnight fast.

I got my BMI down from 62.5 to 33 under my own steam. As I was starting from consuming an average of 3900 calories/day I was able to lower my daily calorie intake by 100 or 200 whenever the weight loss slowed to less than 3kg month. Until I hit BMI 33 and 2300 calories/day. That was as far as I could get on my own, trying to reduce those calories left me constantly hungry and fixated on what I was going to eat next. So rather than push it and trigger binge eating I decided to accept that it was better to weigh 84kgs than 160kgs and to make the best of fitting into a size 24 instead of a size 36.

Then Mounjaro became available, and as so many other people have already mentioned, it is a miracle drug, and a complete game changer for people living with metabolic challenges (hypothyroidism, PMOS, type 2 diabetes etc).

I was easily able to reduce my calories, first down to 2200, then gradually (whenever the weight loss slowed) by another 1-200 calories. I just limbo danced my way under the goal line to a healthy BMI at 63 kg, and intend to keep plodding away until I get down to BMI 21.5, even if it takes another year. Something that would have been inconceivable without Mounjaro. I've had so many unexpected health improvements from Mounjaro, because of the way it lowers inflammation, so I'm happy to stay on it for life, though I'm hoping to reduce the dose from 15 to 5 mg once I'm in the middle of the healthy BMI range.

You could probably achieve a healthier weight without denying yourself too much just by adding loads of different varieties of plants and fermented foods to your plate several times a day. However, combining an improved diet with Mounjaro would make the process a lot easier and will almost certainly break the compulsion to eat too much sugar. It helps people resist their alcohol, drug and nicotine cravings, and they aren't even tied to blood glucose control. Mounjaro is designed to reduce insulin resistance and keep blood sugar stable, so it is even more likely to remove cravings for sugar.

Other posters have already mentioned the importance of resistance training and sufficient protein intake to preserve muscle and bone strength. People who don't protect their existing muscle mass will find that a significant amount of the weight they loose will be muscle. When they reach their target weight (without having retrained their eating habits into healthy eating and improving their gut microflora), their fat cells clamour to be refilled, the cravings come roaring back, and because they now have less muscle mass burning calories, they very quickly regain the lost weight.

It would be easy to blow over 300 quid/month on GLP-1 injections for a couple of years, only to end up with regaining all the lost fat, with extra on top, giving yourself a nasty case of sarcopenic obesity, if you fail to protect your muscle and bone mass and make no lasting changes to your gut microbiome. Because you'll still have all those bacteria that crave sickly sweet foods, UPFs, salt and unhealthy fats.

The mumsnet weight loss injection forums are a mine of information, you can learn a lot just reading what other people have learnt from their own mistakes.

InfoSecInTheCity · 05/07/2026 14:52

Sweet stuff is fine in moderation, just eat better sweet stuff. If you have cake. Chocolate, biscuits then you’re getting loads of sugar but very little fibre so swap it out for sweet fruits instead which will cause less of a blood sugar spike, which in turn will cause less of a blood sugar drop and you’ll find it easier to control the craving. The more spiky your sugar levels are the hungrier you will feel and the more you’ll crave sweet stuff. So add fibre. Protein and fat - think apple slices with peanut butter, strawberries with cream… if you want chocolate g9 for something like a dark chocolate mousse.

Pansykavalier · 05/07/2026 15:02

In your situation I would give Mounjaro a go.

Also try to commit to The Fast 800 - it really works.

For exercise, I would recommend Lucy Wyndham Read as her short workouts (on YouTube) are perfect for beginners.

An excellent explanation of what sugars do to our bodies and why they - and also refined carbs - are so addictive: The Blood Sugar Solution by Dr Mark Hyman.

For daily support and reinforcement, check out Dr Becky Gillaspy’s short talks on YouTube.

MyWildOliveGoose · 05/07/2026 16:35

Pansykavalier · 05/07/2026 15:02

In your situation I would give Mounjaro a go.

Also try to commit to The Fast 800 - it really works.

For exercise, I would recommend Lucy Wyndham Read as her short workouts (on YouTube) are perfect for beginners.

An excellent explanation of what sugars do to our bodies and why they - and also refined carbs - are so addictive: The Blood Sugar Solution by Dr Mark Hyman.

For daily support and reinforcement, check out Dr Becky Gillaspy’s short talks on YouTube.

Before my heart condition was discovered and needed intervention I was a frequent gym goer, 3-4 days a week for atleast 3 hours each time, with lots of HIIT cardio and weightlifting.

I plan to get back to this slowly as my heart recovers from my recent op. Hoping cardiac rehab will start soon. It’s something I was born with, not something caused by my weight, as my weight only became an issue since it was discovered. Maybe that’s the emotional connection a previous replier was questioning x

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anonymous98 · 05/07/2026 16:41

OP, if you have heart issues, I don't think eating 800 calories a day is safe for you, at least without medical supervision.

I really do empathise as I struggle so much with craving sugar.

InfoSecInTheCity · 05/07/2026 16:49

Absolutely agree with @anonymous98 please do not heavily restrict calories. It’s incredibly important that you take and follow medical advice. Your heart is above all else a muscle, a crucial muscle that you need to be as strong as possible, muscles need calories, they need protein. You already have an appt with your medical professionals to help you to make a plan for weightloss that works with your cardiac rehab. They are the people to listen to.

Pansykavalier · 05/07/2026 17:21

Sorry I missed your earlier reference to your heart condition. This obviously changes things and I hope your medical team can tailor an appropriate weighted loss plan for you.

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MyWildOliveGoose · 05/07/2026 10:36

I have an appointment on Wednesday to discuss them with the endocrinologist, but my main concerns are.. how will I know if something is starting to go wrong? I have had quite bad health anxiety in the past, unable to take new meds etc and with that was thrown into finding out I’d been born with CHD and needed corrective surgery. So now I have this need to know when something is wrong early, and I know that’s not always logical or probable - but I feel like with this I just need to know. I’d love to lose the weight and feel good about myself, it’s only the last few years that I’ve really been struggling with weight gain and I can’t figure out what has changed.

The good thing about GLP1 medications is that their half life is 5 days. That means if ‘something goes wrong’ like bad side effects you know the drug will stop causing it within 5 days and you can then just not take another dose. In terms of things like pancreatitis you are MORE at risk of such things by remaining at BMI 35 than taking the drug, seeing a brief rise in risk and then having your weight stabilise and the risk be lowered.

MyWildOliveGoose · 05/07/2026 17:58

@RoseOliviaAu

Because BMI calculations are incredibly dated. They don’t have any data of body fat percentage or muscle mass etc.. I also know that my muscle mass is higher than my body fat percentage so although I am overweight - I am not necessarily obese.

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msea · 05/07/2026 18:10

@MyWildOliveGoosehave you done the weight to height ratio one?

TheBlueKoala · 05/07/2026 18:13

MyWildOliveGoose · 05/07/2026 10:33

All of these things are checked regularly by my cardiologist. I know what my BMI is and the risks associated.

So you know that you risk more staying obese then starting Mounjaro then? Believe me, it wouldn't be offered by the NHS otherwise.

HelenDenver · 05/07/2026 18:24

I am still on my first pen of MJ and I have more or less lost interest in sugary foods.

There is a tub of m and s brownie bites on the kitchen table and a full biscuit tin for others in the house and I’m just.. meh. I could eat one, if I needed to, they aren’t repulsive to me. They just aren’t compulsive. I can eat fruit fine, and protein yoghurts, but biscuits and cake… meh.

So MJ may specifically help with your sugar issue!

Peachylove802 · 05/07/2026 18:41

Your good day of food looks really promising. Have you just used a free app to track calories? You can still have sweet treats within your calories. Fad diets that allow you to starve yourself are just going to keep you in a cycle of never actually losing the weight.

Nutmuncher · 05/07/2026 18:56

Get onto Mounjaro, it’s a game changer.

Isobel201 · 05/07/2026 19:21

I've lost three stone on Mounjaro, I still struggle with a sugar addiction. I try swapping some of it for more protein instead like protein yoghurts and protein filled meals that make me feel fuller so I'm not feeling like I need something sweet. Strangley enough I'm not bothered about chocolate, but I still feel like I need sultanas to go with my porridge and I like a bit of crunchy demerara sugar on my cereal.

Nutmuncher · 05/07/2026 19:24

@Isobel201 Try a half teaspoon of honey, it’s surprisingly good at banishing sugar cravings.

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