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Is this normal? Or lack of self-control?

9 replies

RolytheHipppo · 27/02/2026 10:58

Had a baby just over a year ago. Managed to get down to 10st 12lbs by last September (pre-baby was 10st 7lbs). Unfortunately had to start taking anti-depressants in November and since then have gone up to 11st 2lbs.

I cannot stop eating. I'm always hungry and having major carb/sugar cravings. Managed initially to maintain because I work out a fair bit. 3-4 30 minute strength training sessions per week and an hours walking every day.

Got quite badly ill in January and have had a 6 week complete break in training. Am now better and been trying to get back on the workout schedule but I am so weak. Lifting half of what I was and today I only managed 15 minutes before having to call it a day as I was really not enjoying it and had to come in and eat something. Tried to at least make it not unhealthy so had a slice of toast with almond butter and a 2 egg omelette with cheese and spring onion. This is after a bowl of porridge for breakfast.

I'm so miserable. I desperately want to lose a stone but I cannot stop eating. I'm ravenous all the time. Does this sound a lack of self-control or could something else be going on? I know that's probably wishful thinking!

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NamingNoNames · 27/02/2026 11:08

It might be the anti-depressants.

It won't be helped by eating carbs/sugar. I try not to eat carbs (by that I mean things like cakes, biscuits, toast, pastry, pasta, white rice, cereal, crisps, crispbreads etc) because they give me that false hunger about 2 hours after a meal.

Could you eat healthy naturally low-calorie snacks like an apple instead of toast with nut butter?

RolytheHipppo · 27/02/2026 12:11

I think it must be as I've never known hunger/appetite like it.

Have tried reducing carbs/eating in a calorie deficit. Literally cannot stick to it. I've got to at something filling, eating carrots or fruit just doesn't satiate me.

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NamingNoNames · 27/02/2026 12:19

Speak to your GP.

The omelette would fill me and I'd not be hungry but I'm not on ADs.
Carbs don't fill me up. If I eat them, then my eating goes crazy.

200skies · 27/02/2026 12:27

Which ADs are you on?

RolytheHipppo · 27/02/2026 12:53

I've never had a problem with carbs before, always eaten a very healthy diet.

I'm on sertraline. Think I'm going to speak to my GP on Monday, I've done some googling and sertraline does seem linked to increased hunger/weight gain in some people.

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NamingNoNames · 27/02/2026 13:51

I've never had a problem with carbs before, always eaten a very healthy diet.
I eat a healthy diet but generally avoid carbs because of the blood sugar spikes they give.
It's not something I've made up.

You have 2 things going on - the increased hunger from the AD and the increased hunger from the food.

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 27/02/2026 13:53

Do speak to your doctor @RolytheHipppo
Many ADs cause an increase in appetite. They can try you on a different one.

Specialityblueberries · 27/02/2026 13:54

Are you bored?

Mysticmaiden · 27/02/2026 21:23

Carb cravings indicate high or raised blood sugar. Did you have gestational diabetes? How old are you?
I was prediabetic and had constant carb cravings and my GP said its a symptom as its the starch that converts to sugar, so not just sugar cravings is a sign of diabetes/prediabetes/insulin resistance as people believe.

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