despite no change to lifestyle etc
I'm similar , middle aged , menopausal , 2 DC , been vegetarian for 45 years .
Unfortunately ( I know this because I have posted similar ) spot reduction weight loss is nigh on impossible but exercise especially using resistance weights is the key . Also helps bone density .
I happen to like carbohydrates like rice and pasta . I eat some bread .
I don't eat a lot of fat because it flares up my (non existent ) gallbladder and I don't like butter or margarine .
Apparently this is No Good.
I do know any exercise is tough , I did more walking this week ( I was out and about as on leave) my leg muscles protested so much but eased now .
Smaller plates are not a think for me , I don't look at a plate and think "Well that looks mercenary" but I know I eat the wrong things . On holiday ( DH and I go on cruises) the restaurant meals are sparse , you can fill your boots in the buffet . But they are enough . I don't leave hungry .
I don't eat late at night or I get heartburn .
Start with more water maybe ? I always know when I'm getting dehydrated , I was told "5 glasses of water for every cup of coffee " (filtered coffee ) I gave it a try , to counteract the coffee and stop me drinking too much .
I will keep an eye on this thread for any advice
Tx