I’m not far off 5 stone loss now (no WLI so no side effects other than hair loss) this year.
I have been on two hiking holidays to the Lakes and managed 100 miles in six days, and 150 miles in 13 days (worse weather and shorter days).
I did go hiking with 5 stone more, but couldn’t get up the same mountains / do the same distance as now. I still get very sweaty very easily (streaming down my face), but now I don’t feel as judged for it that it’s because “I’m fat”.
I can find clothes in all stores now, previously at a size 20 it was more challenging and my go-to was Yours.
I fit better into the horrible 3-3 seat configuration on Southern trains without being embarrassed. The other day I dropped my headphones under the train seat and was able to retrieve them - I wouldn’t have been able to bend between my and the front seat before!
I don’t get sweat sores under my belly anymore. And I can cross my legs properly!
I don’t hate looking at myself in video calls anymore.
My GERD is more under control, though it’s unfortunately not gone, so I still have a massive list of trigger foods. But at least I can eat again without bringing up mouthfuls right away as happened quite often before.
I don’t worry about having to go to specific hospitals for surgery - I have private health insurance through work and my nearest hospital won’t treat over a certain BMI.
And… I can go and see my family at Christmas, without getting stupid comments about how fat I am from my aunt or grandmother. Yes, the latter one is a shame, but the last memory I have of my great aunt before she passed was her grabbing my cheeks and telling me I’m fat. When I last met my aunt months ago (different country) she looked up and down on my and said wow, you’re fat now. (Note - she’s been obese all her adult life herself!)
My grandmother told me I should stop eating. I’m sure I’ll still get a stupid comment - but I can counter, as far as family peace requirements allow.
My home country is generally very “judgy” and people stare, so they have one reason less to now.
I am sure there is loads more!