Thanks for replies! To answer some questions;
I have absolutely logged everything on My fitness pal.
I have one coffee a day with coffee mate, which I have logged as well. Apart from the nights I had wine, I only drink water. Oh, and one herbal "sleepy" tea before bed.
I am eating salad for breakfast and lunch. This is salad leaves, topped with cherry toms, radish, cucumber, and then a variant of ham, sliced beef or mackerel fillet (fresh not tinned), and sometimes one boiled egg. No dressing.
Dinner is usually around 500 cals, just a "normal" meal.
Snacks are fruit, or sometimes a packet of french fries crisps (78 cals) or cup soup (98 cals).
Definitely stayed within the 1200 cals every single day. Gah!
Totally hear what everyone is saying about the wine. I used to drink every single night, so 2 nights a week is good for me. I've been dieting for 2 weeks now. 1st week, I lost 3 pounds, but as I say, last week, nothing.