@Trilby12 I'm sorry to hear your struggles.
I have had an underactive thyroid since 1990. I used to take 100mcg and now take 112.5mcg. I keep my TSH at the lower end.
Whenever I have eaten more or had a glass or two of wine in the evening I have put on weight. I have to be rigorous about diet: plain Yoghurt and fruit fkr breakfast, salad for lunch, small meal in the evening (meat, fish, veg). No refined carbs, very little wheat, no trans fats. That keeps me at about 11 stone.
When I put on weight, I thought I was eating less than I was. It might be an idea to keep a food diary and write down everything. There are apps for calories and carbs.
Have you spoken to yiur Dr or a dietician about your weight gain?
I was very slim in my 20s (8 to 9 stone). I was much more active and unbeknown to me at the time, had rampant graves. I ate like a horse in my late 20s to maintain weight. I think it made me struggle, once the graves was dealt with, with portion size, hence the weight gain.