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Someone motivate or inspire me

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bollockballs · 02/05/2024 22:22

I'm a size 16-18 & I am not comfortable. I used to be a trim 12-14. But what do I do, daily? Oh yeah just eat shit. What scares me is I am completely unmotivated to change. Even for a few days. A long time ago I'd say 'Right, rein it in for a week or 2 to lose X amount'. Now I genuinely can't go a day without sweet treats. I've always had a sweet tooth. I can eat a pack of cakes all to myself by the time I've got in the car & finished the 25 min drive home. Share chocolate bars are nothing to me. I never feel sick. I love the taste. I'm on my feet all day doing this & that but it's not enough to combat the calories I eat. Why don't I care anymore... well I clearly care because I'm writing my life story but why don't I care enough to actually sort it out? I know it has to come from me & I have no excuses I just love rubbish food.

Anyone with any words of wisdom or a virtual slap please come forth.

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SublimeLemonHead · 03/05/2024 10:04

Share chocolate bars are nothing to me. I never feel sick. I love the taste

I'm exactly the same. I know many people bigger than me (start weight 15st 2) who couldn't get through a quarter of the chocolate I can easily eat. My problem has never been meals though...I eat porridge, loads of fruit and veg, overall fairly healthy. My weight was due to the huge amount of crap I was eating in between, including a share size bar of chocolate every single night. It's a difficult habit to break.

For me, SW has worked very well to keep me focused and limit the crap. 12.5lbs down so far and I still eat chocolate every single day, but now within my syn allowance.

BarrelOfOtters · 03/05/2024 10:14

I just thought I'm sick of being fat and it's effecting my mood and starting to effect my health. I was 3 stone overweight.

a year later I've lost a stone and a half and built muscle. I've dropped a dress size - so from being a 16 heading into an 18 - I'm a 14 heading towards a 12.

I've gone with a take it slowly and change habits route. I'm not a yo yo dieter this had all steadily piled on.

My downfall is savoury - so family packs of crisps eaten sitting on the sofa, a grab bag of crisps from the garage, cheese and biscuits as a snack before tea and then as a snack after tea.

It was just ridiculous.

I just stopped with the crisps - we still have them in the house but I'm just ignoring them. Little bags of fat.

I eat a breakfast with protein (poached eggs on toast, or omelette or Greek yogurt and fruit) ,

a smallish lunch usually leftovers without carbs, or home made soup.

And a tea with lots of veg, brown rice, potatoes with skins on or jacket. And some protein.

I eat more fish and less red meat. More beans and lentils.

I don't get starving and if I do I eat a banana.

I also joined a gym where you sign up to 3 weights/cardio classes a week and I go first thing so it's over and done with for the day.

Dog walk every day.

A 40 minutes walk on the days I don't go to the gym, which includes a hill.

I've built up to this - didn't do it all on the first day. But it's where I am after a year and is working for me.

Menora · 03/05/2024 10:19

I did not realise how sick I did feel until I changed my lifestyle. I was always tired and aching and had IBS flare ups. This became normal so I hadn’t noticed. I have so much energy and my skin and hair and nails are really healthy. Dry skin and acne cleared up. My IBS is stable.

Women tend to get very busy caring for everyone else and stop caring for themselves. You should take care of yourself and make yourself happy - chocolate is a short term fix/buzz but not the answer to contentment

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