A GP or endocrinologist or dietitian should be able to give you advice. They might put you on an 800 cal diet as mentioned above for two weeks or so. I was diabetic and managed to go into remission. Most reasonable diets (low carb, low fat, fasting) will work, but the key is to choose something sustainable for you.
Whatever you do, try and limit the carbs. I focus on whole foods (not completely), high protein (I’m vegetarian but I think lean meats, poultry and fish should be fine just not everyday), I have moderate carbs in the day and generally have a lower carb dinner. I’ll use a little oil in dressings but to cook with I use a spray oils generally. The more protein you have the less hungry you will be. Make sure a third of your plate is non starchy vegetables. I find it quite difficult, but if you can try and track your calories. An example day might be:
Breakfast: Spinach and Ricotta Omelette, homemade beans, seasoned tomatoes, mushrooms and carrot
Lunch: Tofu and mango stir fry with half a pouch of brown rice. Mindful Chef has a good recipe, skip the maple syrup or swap for sweetener and I usually drizzle some sriracha on top. The veg is usually just a stir fry pack from the supermarket.
Dinner: Is usually a salad of some sort. For example Baked Halloumi (Seasoned with jerk sauce, Tikka paste, peri peri or something), or Falafel, some salad leaves, avocado and whatever veg I have in the fridge. Dressing will usually be something simple. A combination of some of the following: teaspoon of olive oil or sesame oil, lemon or lime, balsamic, hummus, garlic salt and pepper.
I have protein shakes, fruit (only one portion) or Alpro yoghurt in between. Usually I eat the same thing for two days in a row. Eat slowly and off small plates. You can always take a bit more if you feel hungry. When I’m finding it difficult, don’t have as much time as I do now or I think I’m slipping up then I will eat the same thing all week just to eliminate choice. Rome wasn’t built in a day though. It was small changes over a long time. I try and eat like this 80% of the time.
Do not drink your calories, water, infused water, herbal teas, and occasionally a sugar free drink. I had to quit tea because I couldn’t help putting sugar in it. Sugar is not your friend and I’m not successful with this, but you should try and avoid sweeteners because I find they lead to sugar cravings. I lost around 25 kg but still have quite a bit more to lose so I’ve started Wegovy as well, but obviously this isn’t for everyone.
I truly hate exercise, so I started small. I started walking, did some of couch to 5k and then got a PT because I’m ridiculous and I need someone to force me.