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Bored of food

9 replies

Norachance · 22/10/2022 09:56

I used to weigh 10 stone which was ok. That was 30 years ago. Since then I have spent my life yo yo dieting. Every diet. My whole adult life has been get fat lose weight get fat. I was 16 stone at my highest 12 years ago when I went on the Cambridge diet and lost 3 stone. In the last few years the lowest I have been is 11.7 stone. I’m now 14 stone again. Clothes that I bought six months ago are too tight. I am so fed up with dieting. I don’t even like food any more. I just eat rubbish and I honestly don’t know how to stop. It’s like food depression or something. If you offered me anything in the world I truly can’t think of any meal I would like to eat and yet I used to take pleasure in cooking from scratch healthy meals for the family. I made everything and never bought ready meals and now it’s all I buy. ( children all adults now so they are ok!) I think Years of diet rules have broken me. Yesterday other than some grapes I didn’t eat one nutritious thing. I had a tub of ice cream though (and I didn’t really enjoy that I just ate it) half a pack of biscuits and a Milky Way and some oven chips. I feel as if I should eat something vaguely healthy but I don’t want to. I don’t even want real food that’s unhealthy! I want a bag of crisps. I have lost all motivation to lose weight but I am unhappy about my weight. In the supermarket I stupidly put childlike (70s child) food in my basket that for years and years I haven’t eaten. It’s like I am sabotaging myself. There is nobody telling me to lose weight except me. Nobody criticises me except me. I can start in the morning with a good breakfast and a healthy lunch and by the time I get home from work I am buying rubbish to eat, no idea why. I feel guilty for eating unhealthy food but inside I just shrug and think - oh well.
I don’t know what to do. Eating gives me absolutely no pleasure but I can’t stop stuffing my face with junk.
What can be the reason for this behaviour.

OP posts:
SpamIAm · 22/10/2022 10:44

The problem with dieting is that it doesn't address the underlying reasons why you ate a particular way that resulted in you gaining weight in the first place.

Personally I can recommend Noom - I'm 1 stone 8 down so far and they feel like sustainable changes. Nothing drastic like excluding foods altogether, still allowing myself treats when I want to and really makes you reflect on why you have certain behaviours around food. There are other similar options out there I'm sure, but I think you need something that addresses your thoughts and behaviours around food rather than just some rules to lose weight.

Tanaqui · 22/10/2022 11:17

Could you be depressed? Or maybe angry about something? It sounds a bit to me like you are eating your feelings?

Norachance · 22/10/2022 11:50

Thank you.
I think the current situation we are all in is stressful. It's like there is nothing to look forward to. Maybe it's my job. I went back to full time in February. I had not worked for a couple of years as I cared for my dad(now dead), I like where I work but leaving home at 6.45 getting home at 5.30 is so hard after not doing it for a few years. That's probably where the lack of cooking comes in as I no longer have time.
I started a trial of noom recently but it seems pretty expensive! Good to hear it's been successful for you. Maybe I should look again.

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Norachance · 22/10/2022 11:51

Just the two replies from you both is actually really helping me think. Maybe I need therapy.

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cosmiccosmos · 22/10/2022 11:57

Addicted to carbs? Also it sounds like switching to food that is really tasty might help?

How about going to the supermarket and buying some really fresh ready made salads, the ones with protein and a sauce. Also some chunky ready made soups that are tasty - Waitrose do some lovely ones like chicken jambalaya. Fruit and cheese also lovely (imo).

Quick and easy to prepare. Eat them first, if you then want crisps have a small packet (buy the packs of small packs).

cosmiccosmos · 22/10/2022 11:59

What I'm trying to say is don't think about dieting focus first in finding foods you love to eat. Once this is established you can then perhaps focus on eating less/finding alternatives eg white rice switch to whole grain.

Selok · 23/10/2022 00:24

OMG, it is like reading my own mind and what's going through my head! Exactly the same, I feel like I don't even enjoy food anymore, I work from home I go downstairs for a snack, look around and in all those healthy things I can eat I pick crisp, funny thing is I don't even enjoy it why do I keep sabotaging myself? I am not depressed but I think being in peri menopausal state has a lot to do with it. I used to love cooking now I am looking for an excuse to order takeaways, eating rubbish

Northbynorthbreast · 21/11/2022 17:02

I recommend Foodaddicts.org

its free.

its a 12 step addiction recovery group for those of us who suffer from uncontrollable eating due to flour, sugar and binges.

its literally saved my life.

PM if it would be helpful.

fishonabicycle · 25/05/2023 10:50

Oh OP. That sounds so hard ... I've gone back to full time about 3 months ago and it makes life really tiring and hard to get organised. Give it time and be kind to yourself x I have started making simpler meals and doing less cleaning (our house is literally a building site nand we are moving into the caravan soon 🤪) so cooking facilities will be minimal. I'm getting a load of cook frozen meals and easing up on myself.

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