Ooh maybe we are talking at cross purposes.
The procedure I had was a sleeve gastroscopy. They make 4 incisions and do the surgery through those. For clarity, I had my appendix out by a similar procedure a few years ago. They put instruments through the holes, cut away most of your stomach, and remove the stomach through one of the holes.
I was in hospital for 3 days and two nights after my procedure and was in a drip most of that time. The drip was for pain killers as well as fluids. I had nurses coming in topping up pain and checking on me throughout the night. After discharge I was pretty good, up and about very quickly but I had pain for a good week after, and was very tired.
I am so happy I had this operation. It has been life changing for me and absolutely worth it. But I think I was a bit naive going in, thinking it was just glorified day surgery. I've since had people say to me that it was a 'cop out' or that I'm just lazy, which you will understand is horrible when you've been driven to surgery because you're despairing that nothing you do is working, despite years of focus and willpower that never paid off.
I know I'm making it sound horrible but I just want you to be aware that for some people it's not just a 'little procedure', because pre-op I only saw glowing 'it was a walk in the park' reports. Having said that, I've never had a baby! LOL.
If you feel as I felt pre op, and it sounds like you do, I would recommend it wholeheartedly. It will change your life. There will be adjustments, but with a lifetime of dieting behind you, I'm sure you have the strength for that, as I do!
Please feel free to DM me if you have more questions xx