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Weight loss chat

A space to talk openly about weight loss journeys and challenges. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. You may wish to speak to a medical professional before starting any diet.

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Success Stories

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Orlando234 · 28/12/2020 08:40

As inspiration, would some of you tell us your weight loss success stories and how you achieved it.

I think it would give some of us a big boost that it really can be done!!

I lost 3.5 stone without trying (after being widowed 5 years ago) but I’ve put 1.5 stone back on and am desperately trying to stop myself creeping back up to my pre-widow fatness ☹️

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zzizz · 28/12/2020 09:14

Can I boast a little with my "story"?

Before this year, I had an absolute crap diet and lived off pizza, fast food, rice, white bread. I had almost no exercise (except some swimming, which was just fun rather than a hard-core workout). I was getting bigger and more bloated and beginning to have to think about a new wardrobe.

In August I cut out sugar and processed foods, including bread, and I stopped using salt on everything. I started logging calories and eating lots of eggs, vegetables and fish for the first time. For context, I'm autistic and have always hated these - now I love them and can't imagine not having a plate filled with them - seriously for me this was bloody hard and I'm so proud of myself. I also started exercising with an indoor bike and rebounder, and going out for walks every day.

I've lost over two stone, I'm just about fitting into size 8 clothes now, and I have muscles developing all over my body, its amazing. I have so much energy and my moods are more level, my periods are less painful, my anxiety is lower.

All of this is probably "no shit Sherlock" to everyone else but to actually feel the difference has been amazing. I almost feel evangelical about it, and if I can manage a big change like this, anyone can.

Yes its tough and the first few weeks were really difficult, but its so worth it. I couldn't care less about what I look like, but feeling slim and agile again is amazing.

AllIWantForXmasIsLouMumsnet · 28/12/2020 10:59

We're just bumping this for you, @Orlando234 - hopefully more inspiring Mumsnetters will be along soon with their weight loss stories. Flowers

Orlando234 · 28/12/2020 11:00

That’s brilliant zzizz....and it’s exactly what I need to read! I know all that ‘theory’ but I really need to hear it from someone who it has actually worked for!!

That’s given me a boost, well done you!

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zzizz · 28/12/2020 12:46

Aw I'm glad it helped, I actually saw that no one else had posted and worried that maybe it came over too self-centered or boastful, so asked MNHQ to delete it (hence their kind post above!)

I do feel a bit dim that it's taken me till almost 40 years old to "get" why diet and exercise are important. I was always pretty skinny without trying but was never healthy, and I didn't know about calories or macro nutrients or anything. Still, better late than never I guess!

HattieMid2 · 28/12/2020 12:53

I’ve had amazing success this year thanks to intermittent fasting. It’s second nature to me now. Lost two stone without any huge effort, and I’d been obese for ten years!
The best thing is it’s free, and simple. Plus you can adapt it to what’s happening in your life (when we can actually go out and do things again!)
I started with reading ‘Fast, Feast, Repeat’.

cricketmum84 · 28/12/2020 13:00

I joined ww in December 2018 at 25st. I was desperately unhealthy and had finally taken a long hard look at myself and found some willpower.

I eat plant based and haven't touched meat since April 19 which I think has helped too.

I've lost 9 stone of my 12 stone target and hoping I can get to my target weight by July. I've also gone from a size 24-26 to a size 16. Me and my teenage daughter can fit into my old clothes together 😂

Orlando234 · 28/12/2020 13:14

Hattiemid2... which fasting regime? I tried 16:8 and coped easily without food but couldn’t cope without milk in my morning cuppa, so it didn’t work for me ☹️

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Orlando234 · 28/12/2020 13:16

Zzizz.... I didn’t see it as boastful, it’s what I wanted. I see it as inspirational.

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Orlando234 · 28/12/2020 13:18

Cricket... wow, just wow! You must be so proud of yourself and look and feel pretty fabulous!!!

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Wowcherarestalkingme · 28/12/2020 13:19

@cricketmum84 that is amazing! What an achievement.

I have lost 5 1/2 stone this year doing slimming world. I know it doesn’t work for a lot of people but I’ve really enjoyed it. Got a stone to go which I’m hoping will be gone by easter

HattieMid2 · 28/12/2020 13:28

@Orlando234
I started with 16:8 and built up to more of a one meal a day diet - but that’s honestly as I feel so great when fasting that I pushed it a bit longer.
I’m quite flexible with it and now tend to do more of an 18:6 when off work and 22:2 when working (basically just eat dinner when I get home and small dessert before bed).
I just drink herbal tea or black coffee in the mornings now - try it and see how you feel 😄

PerfectionistProcrastinator · 28/12/2020 13:57

I have had success this year with intermittent fasting, 16:8. Years previously I would stop start slimming world. Different things work for different people but I know how to eat sensibly (I just wasn’t) and I’m too lazy to track everything.

I am 5’6” and started at 11 stone 10. I am now down to 10 stone. I have taken it really slowly and my body has really responded. Began by drastically cutting down snacking and stopped eating junk as meal replacement. Not buying snacks at all at one point. After dropping 10lbs I found out about intermittent fasting and gave it a go. It really suits me because I don’t eat breakfast anyway. By the way you can still have a bit of milk in a morning cuppa and stay in fast. I believe it’s called a dirty fast. I have milk in my coffee every morning, then water til lunchtime.

This way of eating seems to have been the only thing to ever change my mindset! It’s amazing. I now listen to my body more and only seem to want some chocolate if I really fancy and have room for it. I don’t mindlessly snack. I like the feeling of being hungry for a nice meal.

I overindulged in chocolate a few weeks back and felt awful for it, heart racing and couldn’t sleep. Felt really tired and sluggish the next day.

Seeing as my downfall is evening snacking it was hard to get myself out of the habit. I just kept reminding myself that it’s not normal or healthy to do it. I like that I can still enjoy treats and even more so because I have saved myself for it, like a takeaway.

The other thing I did was buy scales that connect to my Fitbit. I weigh most days to keep on track. The scales measure bmi, body fat percentage and much more.

SausageCrush · 28/12/2020 17:07

I've been overweight most of my adult life.
15 months ago I began a new diet and lost 3 stone over a year.
I have kept it all off for the past 3 months and am confident I can stick with this new way of life.
I fast one day a week - usually Monday.
I started on 5/2 when I saw how much better a friend looked on it. I have to say it wasn't an immediate hit with me. I got headaches which I now realise was because I cut out coffee. I also found it a huge faff to find meals for 500 calories and found I was obsessing about it. It sounds a bit mad, but I actually find it easier not to eat at all, just drink water, black coffee and peppermint tea. I keep busy and find my body has adapted and seems to 'know' when I'm fasting and not bother me too much with hunger pangs, though it wasn't like that at the beginning.
For the next 3 days I eat normally. I have a large mug of milky coffee, a large sandwich lunch and 3 pieces of fruit and then a large dinner - big bowl of pasta or salmon/noodles with lots of veg.
The last three days of the week are treat days; so I have wine with meals (approx half a bottle each night), slightly more calorific meals (pizza, fish & chips, curry) and a pudding.
Then back to Monday and fasting.
I exercise for around an hour a day most days. Usually three brisk walks, two swims and one visit to the gym.
I hope this can help some of you to design a way of eating that suits you. I am very greedy and always like the planning and looking forward to meals, so it really suits me.
Good luck 🤞

EverythingsComingUpRoses · 28/12/2020 22:39

A month into lockdown I was struggling to work out where the sofa finished and my bottom started

I've been overweight all my adult life and I've never been particularly kind to myself about it

I decided I needed to start being nicer to myself which included being nicer to my body

The majority of what I now eat is home made, nutritious food that has a purpose -I care about having a balanced diet (which also means I'm allowed treats) because I now care about myself

I've gone from 20st 10 to 14st 4 and at 6ft tall this means I'm a stone from my target

I have 'dieted' lots of times before but my head was never in it for the long haul -you need to get the right mind set before you start would be my advice

Good luck Smile

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