Hey,
I have lost 2 1/2 stone, and finally feel comfortable in my body.
I will be honest it has taken lot of trail and error, falling off the wagon numerous times and getting back up again especially as I enjoy food, chocolate and wine. Finding that balance was difficult at the beginning.
I wanted to share some things that worked for me:
- Lower carb to begin (note eliminating all carbs) also did some keto/ intermittent fasting - to find out what worked for my body best.
-I was a chocolaholic, and loved snacking especially when I was bored, but I started to replace this with my own healthy treats that also kept me busy as well and I didn't feel so guilty.
I also buy healthier treats that I discovered in my journey- lower calorie- ice cream, chocolate, also found nice coffee that satisfied me if I felt really hungry.
- Regular exercise this not only helped me lose weight but it also helped me mentally as well.
When I realized that I felt so good mentally I actually came came to enjoy exercise oppose to dreading it because I didn't feel like I was only going to lose weight. My purpose became stronger, and now I love getting up to go. Never thought I would say that!.
- Finding balance - this was hard at first, I enjoy food, red wine, a gin & tonic etc - so I tried to eat more healthy when I knew I was drinking and save treats for another time. I didn't want to cut it out completely especially as I am sociable and I like to enjoy my life!
- Finding foods I enjoyed that were healthy. I would have went insane if I had to stick to chicken and broccoli for the rest of my life!.
So I found cooked with meats, vegetarian foods, seafood vegetables and tried to mix things up to make it enjoyable, adding spices, herbs, sauces. Variety is key to prevent boredom.
I also tried to cook my favorite "unhealthy meals" i.e pizza, chinese, nandos but make a more healthy version for myself.
If I was eating out, I would still pick what I wanted to eat off the menu, if I wanted a desert I would have it and not feel guilty. The next day I would eat more healthy to balance things out.
- Keep going, keep positive- mindset is everything, it takes time. If you have a bad day or bad week that is ok. Be gentle with yourself, there is a lot going on right now, so keep going, and keep strong.
-Remember you don't have to compete with anyone else, your weight loss journey is your own so do it at your own speed. Remember the little steps add up to big results the long term.
I wanted to share with you, please feel free to ask me any questions. I hope everyone is keeping safe and healthy.
All the best.