I am putting DH on a diet (have told him it is a "health plan") as after months of disagreeing about whether he should lose weight or not, I've calculated his BMI is 30, i.e. getting into the "obese" range.
He doesn't look obese, actually, just overweight, but I want my children's father to be around as long as possible and so I've told him what the new rules are.
He recently had a medical for a new job and told me he had weighed 97 kilos (15 stone) and that the doctor had told him he could lose a stone. Having looked at BMI recommendations, it seems to me like he should be losing 2.5 stone. I suspect he has under-represented what the doctor really said as he feels sensitive about it. On the other hand, 12.5 stone does seem quite light for the upper end of a BMI "healthy weight range".
Can anyone shed some light on this, or recommend alternative ways to determine what weight a man of his height "should" be? He is of medium to large frame, I'd say.
Also, any tips on how to motivate a man to diet and keep at it would be fantastic.