Hi again @mehfruittea just checking in to see how you are doing.
The day you posted didn't seem too bad. Have you tried logging what you eat in my fitness pal to see how it comes out in calories? That's what I'm doing. It doesn't keep me on the wagon all the time but it does most days. I like it because nothing is forbidden. If I have a glitch and eat all the crisps I can eat a smaller dinner. Not ideal but means I don't just give up.
Could you make up food for your weekday lunches at the weekend with your DH so you have something wholesome there when you need it? Maybe soup that you could freeze in portions. I make a lovely lentil and veg one, pretty filling and 84 cal a serving so you can have bread with it guilt free!
I am doing ok but losing very very slowly, but at least I am losing. I know I need to be stricter, not eat my exercise calories if I do make it for a walk, and stop falling into the hot chocolate at bedtime! At least alcohol is not a problem as due to my meds I can't drink much.
Here is a 'good' day from last week
B: mixed berries, Greek yoghurt, sprinkle of granola, tea
L: HM smoked mackerel pate (whizz up mackerel with a little Greek yoghurt or Philadelphia, lemon juice and pepper) with ryvita, cherry toms, carrot and a few avocado slices
D: pork chop, a few wedges, roast butternut squash, broccoli
S: more tea, hot chocolate 
My scales are very erratic, but going in a general downward direction.
My motivation for dieting is to be in less pain - I had an accident 18 months ago and tore the muscle and tendon and the top of my leg. They are refusing to heal so now I have insertional tendinitis and bursitis. Basically ain't sit down for more that a few minutes as it's so painful. I have other health problems too but this is what is making my crazy at the moment.
Sorry have waffled on a bit, hope you are ok. Let us know how you're doing!