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A message to myself - turn the corner and don't look back

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workatemylife · 01/08/2014 13:05

I put on a few pounds over the winter, and after a couple of half-hearted attempts to shift them, I got despondent. Not a problem in itself, except that it became an excuse to set off on a downward spiral. An occasional over-indulgence soon became a habit, and once I had eaten one cake / biscuit etc, my head figured that I had messed up the diet for the day so I might as well have more, and more, and more. But scoffing cr*p all day was hardly going to help with anything, was it. [slapping self around the head emoticon needed here I think]

I want yesterday to be the day that I turned the corner. I ate three healthy meals. When the munching habit threatened to kick in, I tried to find a diversion. I went to work along a route that did not take me past the corner shop.

That was day one, and I know that one day is a teeny tiny step along the way to fixing this. That's why I'm sending a message to myself here so that next time I'm MNetting (and the next, and the next) it is there to remind me that this was the day that I turned the corner and I will not look back.

I already feel better. I woke up this morning and although my clothes don't miraculously fit (if only it worked that way), I felt less cross with myself, and haven't given in to temptation. I'm not setting a time limit or a weight limit on this. I am simply going to keep on going until I get the 'old' me back, and try to make this a permanent state of affairs.

Anyone care to join me on a 'this is the moment I took control' journey?

OP posts:
NewbieChewbie · 19/08/2014 09:40

Hope everyone has a good day. Stay strong. Stick to the plan. I'm off out with my DCs and a friend's DC for the day so I'll be trying to do the same.

NewbieChewbie · 19/08/2014 09:41

Correction. I will be doing the same.

workatemylife · 19/08/2014 12:05

Hi whitebits and newbie. The more people add their names here, the more it seems that a lot of us have been gradually piling on the pounds and are thoroughly grumpy about how it has happened.

Thanks for the links newbie. It sounds like you have had a tough time. I know that a slice of cake once or twice a week won't make me fatter, but a cake every day for 5 months will! But somehow I switch off that knowledge all too often.

I'm with you on the aiming for a clothes size rather than weight thing. Our scales don't really work (step on, step off, step on and get two different answers). For me, it is getting back into the clothes that I like and that I know I looked good in.

I read yesterday that to drop a clothes size you need to lose 10-15 lbs in weight. So that's why I can't get into my favourite skirt after two weeks of sensible eating. It is also a real wake-up call; I haven't 'put on a few pounds' as I said at the beginning - I have probably gained at least a stone. Blush

That has been another wake-up call. And it made me say no to some food last night. At the moment, just saying no seems okay. I don't miss what I'm not having once I decide not to have it, but there are some triggers that I need to be careful around, whether it is boredom, ingrained habits, or just being cross with myself.

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whitebits · 19/08/2014 12:36

Well I weighed myself this morning and I'm 10st 11lbs so not as bad as it could be but most definitely not as good as it could be ! Didn't eat until around 10.30 when I felt peckish so had some scrambled eggs and wholemeal toast. Off out with DD shortly so will take some fruit incase I get peckish. Not sure what's on the cards for dinner, have some salad in the fridge to use up so maybe some tuna salad. The fact that I am not actually ravenous and even after eating relatively little in the past 36 hrs is just showing me how much I was over-eating before ! Have a good day everyone Grin

cleanmachine · 19/08/2014 21:29

Hi can I join you guys? Newbie invited me here. My own thread is pretty empty.

I've got about 20lbs to lose and I'm starting by cutting bad carbs and sugar and then moving on to 5 2. I just want to have a good first week and it's day 2 today. I've done really well and feel really positive. I think my eating issues stem from my childhood when there was never enough. Love or food. I'm not massive but I'd like to lose a couple of stone as I feel I've always denied myself the chance to feel really good about myself.

I cook from scratch and am not a snacky person but I think my portion sizes must be wrong. Food is the biggest comfort for me and makes me so happy. But it's time to put myself first and lose this couple of stone. I've tried and failed many times and deep down I still feel like this will end in disaster too. I'm hoping you can support me to keep at it and I can support you.

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