yep title says it all. on several occasions at work in past few weeks several individuals have asked if I am pregnant or not. first time I was mortified and mumbled something and ran away back to my desk but by the 4th suggestion of 'oooo I didn't know you were expecting!' I said I'm not pregnant just fat. The poor girl was horrified. I don't wear tight fitting clothes but more loose tops and skinny/fitted trousers etc. I've also noticed a bit of a pot belly and when I slouch I guess it is pretty prominent. I know I need to lose weight, okay a lot of weight, but until these comments I was fairly confident about my size. when I was pregnant I longed for my prominent tummy. wasn't expecting it three years after kids!! I need to pull my finger out and get motivated to lose the Buddha belly. but how do you stay motivated when comments can bring you down and repeated over and over in the little voice in your head?