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Is anyone else 'skinny fat?'

35 replies

AnnaFurLact1c · 29/11/2012 15:57

Do you know what I mean by this?

I'm 5 foot 4, maybe a touch under 9 stone and a size 8, more or less. So I'm slim and have a BMI of 21. So far, so good.

However, under my clothes it's a different story. I have a 'fat' tummy and am decidedly untoned. I just look a bit flabby.

How do I sort this out without losing more weight? Or is it something you just accept - I hardly expect to look like a model but would rather not have all this flab.

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gracelesslady · 30/11/2012 18:06

Does anyone else feel an exercise pact coming on???

UnexpectedItemInShaggingArea · 30/11/2012 19:45

You need to do strength training to build muscle and tone. And none of that namby-pamby light-weights-low-reps nonsense they always tell women to do in gyms. Don't fear the weights - they will make you look toned, not buff

This is very true. I have swung a 20 kilo kettle bell, flipped a tractor tyre and dragged 30 kilo chains across a beach, still no danger of developing a noticeable muscle but my belly has shrunk.

Mu1berries · 30/11/2012 20:00

ha ha!!! so true!

I remember in the officethe water cooler needed changing and all the men were hmming and hawing over it. I picked it up and changed it. Not so much as a "you're strong fair play" I just had a raised eyebrow I think.

Mu1berries · 30/11/2012 20:03

jillian michaels yoga meltdown looks good. I don't have the dvd as it's not available in this region but i've done level one on youtube and it's tough. those isometric contractions are killers.

AnnaFurLact1c · 01/12/2012 00:15

Interesting stuff. I'd be interested in a 'beginners exercise thread to build muscle ' or some other equally catchy title.

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bluebird68 · 02/12/2012 10:22

me too. I'm 5.2 and a BMI of 22 but i hate the way i look as i'm so flabby and its getting worse as i get older- and will continue that way unless i take action. I get so fed up with people saying 'you're so slim'.
Is anyone going to start a new thread for those who want to do some exercise to tone up?

AlwaysReadyForABlether · 02/12/2012 10:27

Whilst I am considerably larger than the rest of you I would definitely recommend some kind of training involving weights and focussing on your core. A few years ago I was a Size 12 and doing a lot of training and my shape changed considerably - flatter stomach, definite curves at my waist. I have put on weight since then but my waist still has more definition than it did before. And although I am nearly back to my heaviest weight I am still two dress sizes smaller. Just need to get the weight off again!

Mu1berries · 02/12/2012 10:37

ok enough talking as jillian michaels would say. going to do 6w6p now. not many weights there but it is a real cardio blast that focuses on the torso.

bluebird68 · 02/12/2012 10:49

i'm going to start with this book i just got- no gym workout , you do the exercises 3 times a week and on the other days power walk . Its a good easy start and probably better for me than jumping in at the deep end. I already pretty much power walk so got that covered, instead i'll add the yogalates DVD i have and see what that's like. I turn 45 in 11 weeks so lets see if i can lose a couple of inches at least all over in that time.

I'm not sure about shred but maybe no more trouble zones once these exercises become too easy. what sort of exercises does she do in it - for anyone who has it? Does it use weights?

sassytheFIRST · 02/12/2012 11:17

Haha. I'm fat skinny - BMI bang on 25, slim arms, legs, waist, belly etc and people mostly think I am slimmer than I am.

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