Best advice I give myself is be honest with yourself.
Many people live in denial or think because they dont eat or weigh as much as the next person then they ok.
I have bad weeks but usually know exactly where I gone wrong and overindulged and work on it the next week
People start diets they have slight slip up and think the diets ruined and no point in diet where as I say draw a line in sand move on
Everything in moderation.
low fat items usually do have more sugar.
white carbs bread, rice , pasta quickly get converted into sugar making us sugar addicts with huge dips in energy levels which then we think we need caffeine which stops us sleeping and we still tired.
I must admit I love my coffee. if hungry in between meals i try drinking first as people mistake hunger with thirst and we suppost to be getting 8 glasses water a day which I rarly manage.
My youngest is 7months and im still breast feeding think thats helped keep weight off.
I find the whole curvy debate hard
is there a fine line between curvy and fat?
Im occasionally partial to trashy womens weekly mags with celebrity stories.
They seem to love to focus on weight issues they either anorexic or overweight poor celebs cant win. But occasionally heat does a feature what do stars really weigh? remember reading jennifer lopez was 8stone think shes 5,6- height shes not short yet shes constatly paraded as the curvy latino woman when she looks and blatenly is tiny.yes she has hips and bust but a tiny waist.
Maybe shes a modern day marilyn contradiction.
I guess the nearest figure to marilyn is dita von teese and burlesque dancers.
They go on about beth ditto whos huge not curvy
Even sophie dael the perfect plus size model lost weight really fast after she became famous.
Even comedians like dawn french/ruth jones lost lots recently.
What bugs me the most is model they use for plus size clothing ranges always look about a size 12 then people size 28-32 think they going to look as nice as the model in same outfit!
Think the clothing/fashion industry trying to delude us.