I have just started doing the New ID course, anyone interested?
www.newid.info/
here
It is run by a local church. You do not need to be a Christian to go on the course but it is from a Christian perspective.
I have found I am not thinking about food in the same way since starting the course, I am not feeling deprived by not having lots of treats etc and I am feeling so positive about what I do eat. It is great. It is early days. Only been to two sessions and the next one is coming up Sunday (there are 6 in total). So, onwards and upwards (or rather downwards as I have already lost some weight, but the main thing is to get my eating in normal boundaries).
I have discovered I have an eating disorder (after years of eating too much, compulsively eating and dieting).
At New ID there is no weigh in or talk of diets etc, or exercise, there is just a look at helping us with problems with eating and finding our identity in Christ.
I know it might not be right for everyone, and not everyone who overeats has an eating disorder.
I felt kind of weird 'labelling' myself as having an eating disorder as I have not been medically diagnosed but I know how I am around food - I impulse eat, and at times I compulsively eat too. So for me the course is just what I need! I may not have a recognised eating disorder but my eating had been disordered.
It was not really bad but I am several stones overweight (about 3 or 4) and so I now just want to be normal and healthy. I would love to be slim but that may not be the case, I just want to be healthy and not preoccupied with food. I am not ashamed of my problems with food now; I know that a lot of people struggle with it too.
I have been going to Rosemary Conley classes for about 8 months and I love the exercise, but I decided not to follow the diet and to try and stop weighing myself too often as well. I now try and exercise lots but always fun stuff like walking, doing a race for life, and maybe swimming too. The main thing is about getting better from over eating rather than dieting and about finding a new identity.
Feel free to ask me if you are interested in New ID.