So my husband's friend from university brought her mum as a +1 to our wedding recently. She brings her as a +1 to all weddings, so I'd met her before at another one. During that, we got on really well (related because they're a single parent family and I was in a similar situation with my mum) and even had a few in-jokes by the end of the night.
Fast forward to my wedding and both of them turned up in head to toe off-white dresses... I was a bit shocked but didn't make anything of it, it was only a few weeks later when catching up with friends they made comments about how inappropriate it was and how they wouldn't have been as calm in that scenario.
During our wedding, the mum made a comment to me about how she wished someone would talk about her daughter the way my husband talks about me, which I thought was sweet. Overall we were having a nice time dancing together for a bit and then I saw them chatting to my mum which I thought was nice. I then learned (from my husband) that, on the wedding night, the mum said to him that she wished he was marrying her daughter instead. He laughed it off, but I thought it was a really weird thing to say...
I'm not mad at my husband because I trust him and he didn't do anything wrong (and they were friends for years before me so if something was going to happen, it would have), but I'm a bit hurt by the situation - am I reading too much into it? Is there any way that comment and both wearing off-white could be innocent mistakes?!
We're going to another wedding with them in a few months so I'm not sure how to feel about that.
TLDR: Husband's friend and her mum turned up in white to wedding and mum said she wished her was marrying her daughter instead