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3pm reception?

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sundaydayisnotmyfundayday · 08/09/2025 15:16

Been invited to a not close friend's reception in october to start at 3pm. Never heard of a reception starting so early but it definitely states reception on the invitation?

Not sure what to expect. Wonder if it's a cultural thing. Also any ideas for gifts from a reception only guest would be really helpful.

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CarpetKnees · 08/09/2025 16:25

Does it give any information on the invitation ? Or a link to a website?

It seems common these days to give information about how the day is mapped out.

Potentially is the ceremony room very small, so they can't fit people in?
Or might they be getting (legally) married on a different day ?
Or in a completely different place for some reason ?

3pm isn't an odd time to start a Reception, but it is more unusual to be invited to the Reception without being invited to the ceremony.

Re present - ask them if they have a list, but I think 99% of people prefer money these days.

mamagogo1 · 08/09/2025 16:31

Seems a common time to me, lots of people have a midday ceremony

Zov · 08/09/2025 16:33

That sounds very normal, if not slightly later than some I have been to.

How on earth is 3pm 'late' for a wedding reception? Confused

sundaydayisnotmyfundayday · 08/09/2025 19:17

Zov · 08/09/2025 16:33

That sounds very normal, if not slightly later than some I have been to.

How on earth is 3pm 'late' for a wedding reception? Confused

What an odd thing to say. Most wedding receptions here are an evening thing really. So people only invited to the reception dont attend the ceremony or wedding breakfast but are there for cutting of the cake, first dance and the dj/band. Hence why I asked..

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CarpetKnees · 08/09/2025 22:23

It isn't odd at all.
I think you are just using the word 'Reception' different from most of us.

In the UK, the 'Reception' is 'hospitality after the ceremony' so 3pm (or 2pm or 1pm or 11.30am) can all be perfectly normal times for a Reception.

If you are talking about a party after the breakfast, then that would usually be stated, but yes, if a couple are having an 'evening party' then clearly most of us would expect that to be in the evening.
However, most of us would expect 'The Reception' to follow on from the ceremony, hence the replies you have had so far.

sundaydayisnotmyfundayday · 09/09/2025 21:32

So if you were invited to the reception would you expect that to be a sit down meal ?

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utterlybutterly12 · 09/09/2025 21:34

Sounds like you're invited to the whole wedding?

GreenAndWhiteStripes · 09/09/2025 21:36

Yes I think it sounds like you've been invited to the whole thing. I would call this the wedding reception.

CarpetKnees · 09/09/2025 22:30

sundaydayisnotmyfundayday · 09/09/2025 21:32

So if you were invited to the reception would you expect that to be a sit down meal ?

Commonly, but not always, no.

But why don't you ask them to clarify, if they haven't included the information with the paper invitation, or sent a link to a website ?

We can only speculate, the same as you.
In 2025, people can arrange their wedding however they want to. There's even a thread running currently where the wedding is spread over three venues and ending with wild swimming, in the next couple of weeks ! That isn't "typical" or "common" but it is what that particular B&G have planned.

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