I’m getting married end of Nov and was having just my best friend by my side as maid of honour/Bridesmaid. I’m made up for her but she’s just told me she’s pregnant and it’s due the week of the wedding. I hope I didn’t show it to her but I’m devastated she may not make it to the wedding, we were working out how we would navigate it all logistics and things and We were thinking of the 3 different scenarios, she’s heavily pregnant and there, there with a tiny tiny baby all completely fine to me or not there in labour/in hospital not up to it. I no what type of person she is, she’s a people pleaser (as am I) and always pulls herself in every direction so I said to her if she wanted to for her own well being and the baby’s take the maid honour/bridesmaid things off the table and come just as a guest if she could and wanted too. She’s said she things that would be best.
I genuinely want the best for her but at the same time I’m completely devastated the day will not be the same without her and I pray she will be there one way or another I’m just so worried/ upset that she won’t be.
I feel horrible for feeling like this and selfish and I will get over it but I don’t no how to look forward to it now, I no I will but right now I just want to postpone or bring it forward. She means the world to me.
I also don’t no what to do now go at it alone (has anyone done this) or ask someone else however there’s not really anyone else I want.