Since I have gotten engaged and been married I feel people have been weird with me.
I found out about a month or so before I got married a friend wanted to sit me down and explain to me an ex boyfriend from 2017 had just got married.
she wanted to let me know - ‘to break it to me gently’.
i do not follow this creep on social media (she obviously does), and I have not mentioned / had him in my head space for years. Do not care.
Luckily the other friend talked her out of it.
more I think about it the more weird I think it is?
I am well established in my career, as is my new spouse. Neither of us were married before and neither have children. We are subjected to constant comments by these ‘friends’ about our percieved wealth and income. Its frankly insufferable and quite boring. I worked from a single parent family three jobs whilst at Uni whilst these same peers gained inheritance, wealth and benefitted from contacts from private education. It sticks in my throat. The situation as above has not been unusual over the past year / 18 months.
I had people cancel on the day of my wedding for headaches, dog was sick, period pains… the list goes on.
my genuine instinct is that none of these people are happy for me and would have been happier if I stayed as a bachelorette for their entertainment with head tilt sympathies about whatever next idiot I had met on a dating app.
Just a rant really.